"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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a sosuave relationship equivalent?

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Hey,

i'm looking for a forum where there's a bunch of level headed people who arent plugged into the matrix that want me to try to live a disney movie life, but where they'll give real advice on how to maintain a real relationship. anyone know of any?

no offense to sosuave, but people here appear to either be good at attracting girls or not, and very rarely mention their deeply committed relationships...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ease

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Desdinova said:
Haha.

There is relatonship game here. We tune into more LTR and general mindset related discussions.

Its less seen because LTR guys dont have so many problems. Solid LTR game is about being a solid alpha in general, so there isnt so much noise created. You get the small things fixed and start looking at the bigger picture. Its stops being about understanding women and using the principles, because you internalize and understand them.

The guys that are constantly crying and talking and changing are the ones without solid game. Their LTR's dont last very long. Every man needs advice and wisdom with something once in a while, but theres generally less to cry about when you have yourself sorted. You start looking more philosophically at life and the game, and less about 'what i should do next'.

One thing i would say is follow blogs of good writers about this stuff. There is a whole D.C. clique of people like roissy, roosh etc. that write about game and life. Thats about as close as you can get to a levelheaded talking environment on how to lead a life.
 

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My posting slowed down here when I was in my last relationship simply because of time. I had to drive to get to her place, so weekends were always spent either there or at my place. I started posting more when I lost my job last may, sure, but in a happy relationship I had nothing really to say. Girlfriends take up time, and there just isn't much to say.

Basically ease nailed it, you don't need to make noise when things are going well. This forum, as with any forum has good advice but one must understand the community and know where to get it.
 

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"Author: Athol Kay is a innovative thinker, humorist and family man with a one track mind.

He combines a variety of relationship approaches from evolutionary psychology, PUA Game, sociology, biology, life experience, romance novels, crappy women's magazines, far too many books, behavior modification and cheap porn. He has distilled all this research into a few outstandingly effective tactics for gaining happiness and sex in marriage."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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