“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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a sosuave relationship equivalent?

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Hey,

i'm looking for a forum where there's a bunch of level headed people who arent plugged into the matrix that want me to try to live a disney movie life, but where they'll give real advice on how to maintain a real relationship. anyone know of any?

no offense to sosuave, but people here appear to either be good at attracting girls or not, and very rarely mention their deeply committed relationships...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova said:
Haha.

There is relatonship game here. We tune into more LTR and general mindset related discussions.

Its less seen because LTR guys dont have so many problems. Solid LTR game is about being a solid alpha in general, so there isnt so much noise created. You get the small things fixed and start looking at the bigger picture. Its stops being about understanding women and using the principles, because you internalize and understand them.

The guys that are constantly crying and talking and changing are the ones without solid game. Their LTR's dont last very long. Every man needs advice and wisdom with something once in a while, but theres generally less to cry about when you have yourself sorted. You start looking more philosophically at life and the game, and less about 'what i should do next'.

One thing i would say is follow blogs of good writers about this stuff. There is a whole D.C. clique of people like roissy, roosh etc. that write about game and life. Thats about as close as you can get to a levelheaded talking environment on how to lead a life.
 

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My posting slowed down here when I was in my last relationship simply because of time. I had to drive to get to her place, so weekends were always spent either there or at my place. I started posting more when I lost my job last may, sure, but in a happy relationship I had nothing really to say. Girlfriends take up time, and there just isn't much to say.

Basically ease nailed it, you don't need to make noise when things are going well. This forum, as with any forum has good advice but one must understand the community and know where to get it.
 

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"Author: Athol Kay is a innovative thinker, humorist and family man with a one track mind.

He combines a variety of relationship approaches from evolutionary psychology, PUA Game, sociology, biology, life experience, romance novels, crappy women's magazines, far too many books, behavior modification and cheap porn. He has distilled all this research into a few outstandingly effective tactics for gaining happiness and sex in marriage."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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