"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A small tip that goes a long way.

GloriouslyInsane

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Oh what oh what do i do when she won't answer the phone?

I called this girl to ask her about something and she didn't answer! Don't be pissed about it,i give you a little tip that worked flawlessly so far.

After i hang up i would send this sms:

"(my question here,that i wanted to ask over the phone) , You better start answering your phone,this is strike 1(or you got 1 foul,one yellow card etc)"

She will call you back within 5 mins.

Cheers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blinkwatt

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GloriouslyInsane said:
", You better start answering your phone,this is strike 1(or you got 1 foul,one yellow card etc)"
Sounds to desperate for me. Try not to use better(depends how used),need,want. Try should,would like to,that would be great or something along those lines.
How about "(question you had for her),you should answer the phone,you never know when the man of your dreams may be calling"
 

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Actually im not from an english speaking country so i didn't use "better",direct translation of what i said is "start answering the phone,you have one foul" but i see what you're saying here.
 

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Please stop giving advice! This is nonsense!

If she doesn't answer the phone she's either busy or doesn't want to talk to you. NOTHING you can say to her will change that. And making a threat to her is a damn sure way to scare her off for good!
 

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I don't know if it makes sense,point is that it works,but i only tried it on girls that already have high interest in me.And in this particular case she send me an sms 5 mins earlier.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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If a girl does not answer the phone, you simply blow it off as nothing, because it is nothing about 2/3 to 3/4 of the calls i get on my phone are missed calls because i wasnt by my phone at the time, or it was switched off. It does not mean i dont want to talk to who ever is calling.
 
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