"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A small tip that goes a long way.

GloriouslyInsane

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Oh what oh what do i do when she won't answer the phone?

I called this girl to ask her about something and she didn't answer! Don't be pissed about it,i give you a little tip that worked flawlessly so far.

After i hang up i would send this sms:

"(my question here,that i wanted to ask over the phone) , You better start answering your phone,this is strike 1(or you got 1 foul,one yellow card etc)"

She will call you back within 5 mins.

Cheers.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blinkwatt

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GloriouslyInsane said:
", You better start answering your phone,this is strike 1(or you got 1 foul,one yellow card etc)"
Sounds to desperate for me. Try not to use better(depends how used),need,want. Try should,would like to,that would be great or something along those lines.
How about "(question you had for her),you should answer the phone,you never know when the man of your dreams may be calling"
 

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Actually im not from an english speaking country so i didn't use "better",direct translation of what i said is "start answering the phone,you have one foul" but i see what you're saying here.
 

The Truth

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Please stop giving advice! This is nonsense!

If she doesn't answer the phone she's either busy or doesn't want to talk to you. NOTHING you can say to her will change that. And making a threat to her is a damn sure way to scare her off for good!
 

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I don't know if it makes sense,point is that it works,but i only tried it on girls that already have high interest in me.And in this particular case she send me an sms 5 mins earlier.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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If a girl does not answer the phone, you simply blow it off as nothing, because it is nothing about 2/3 to 3/4 of the calls i get on my phone are missed calls because i wasnt by my phone at the time, or it was switched off. It does not mean i dont want to talk to who ever is calling.
 
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