First of all, I am using Google Translate because it is a long article, sorry for the mistakes. I hope you guys can read it.
I have been on this site for a while.
Some people know me. You usually got angry and to be honest, sometimes I thought I deserved it
Both what I read on this site, in books and what I experienced made me think differently.
And finally I read a book called Models and it seemed more appropriate.
"Improve yourself, become good and then instead of pretending to be something, be yourself. 99% of women will reject you but you will find the right person" is the mindset.
"Don't get angry when you get rejected because another wrong person was eliminated"
Sometimes I acted like someone I was not, sometimes I was too brave, sometimes I was afraid to go and talk to a girl, etc. But at the end of the day, I saw that being completely myself is important.
I was ashamed of my body in front of a girl. Then a girl came in front of me and when I told her that I gained weight, instead of seeing me bad, she started calling me my teddy bear
When I talked too much, instead of getting bored with me, she chose to listen.
I am an emotional person and when I wrote and read a poem to a girl, she chose to hug me instead of laughing.
I also saw that if she is the right person, she stays with you no matter what you do.
How masculine I am is debatable. I even went to my boxing training in the evening and then cried for a girl.
But I realized that if it's the wrong person, it doesn't work even if you are the most aesthetic, best, most masculine, richest man in the world.
In fact, when I was talking to my father the other day, he said, "Don't waste time with a woman who always wants something from you and is never satisfied."
I also saw that instead of changing myself, the most important thing is to improve myself and act the way I am.
I would like to thank everyone who helped me with this. I don't know how long it will take, but I won't be around here for a while
I have been on this site for a while.
Some people know me. You usually got angry and to be honest, sometimes I thought I deserved it
Both what I read on this site, in books and what I experienced made me think differently.
And finally I read a book called Models and it seemed more appropriate.
"Improve yourself, become good and then instead of pretending to be something, be yourself. 99% of women will reject you but you will find the right person" is the mindset.
"Don't get angry when you get rejected because another wrong person was eliminated"
Sometimes I acted like someone I was not, sometimes I was too brave, sometimes I was afraid to go and talk to a girl, etc. But at the end of the day, I saw that being completely myself is important.
I was ashamed of my body in front of a girl. Then a girl came in front of me and when I told her that I gained weight, instead of seeing me bad, she started calling me my teddy bear
When I talked too much, instead of getting bored with me, she chose to listen.
I am an emotional person and when I wrote and read a poem to a girl, she chose to hug me instead of laughing.
I also saw that if she is the right person, she stays with you no matter what you do.
How masculine I am is debatable. I even went to my boxing training in the evening and then cried for a girl.
But I realized that if it's the wrong person, it doesn't work even if you are the most aesthetic, best, most masculine, richest man in the world.
In fact, when I was talking to my father the other day, he said, "Don't waste time with a woman who always wants something from you and is never satisfied."
I also saw that instead of changing myself, the most important thing is to improve myself and act the way I am.
I would like to thank everyone who helped me with this. I don't know how long it will take, but I won't be around here for a while
