A situation to learn from

[JonJack]

It's all luck man. You could be unlucky and have the girl you're going after meet a better suitor, or you could be lucky and have the HB all to yourself because better dudes never just seem to find their way to her. Obviously though, HBs tend to meet a lot more guys and the chances that they'll stray would probably be higher compared to an average girl. Add the fact that the girl hasn't even emotionally attached herself to you yet, and you stand little to no chance in keeping her.

I have a feeling a lot of 'nice' guys feel the same way. They ask themselves why doesn't the girl see that she's making a mistake. They get frustrated at her for choosing the path that would end in despair. I've felt those same feelings and I've come to accept that girls just do emotional things like that. They understand it's probably a bad decision, but they respond with emotions rather than reason. As a guy, I will never really know how it feels to be in their shoes. I will never really know how confusing it is for them or how much it eats at them every single day.

It's easy to label girls dumb and stupid for the things they do. But that's the response of a guy who does not want to understand girls and expects girls to fvck them because they should be so lucky as to have been given that opportunity.

Be confident and proud of yourself. But don't expect others to see you in the same light.

 

[ketostix]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
This is the down side to internet dating, fellas. You can meet a woman and really hit it off and she can be very interested in you...UNTIL...some other guy she likes better contacts her. This is just the nature of the beast. Just like you guys will lose interest in one woman when something better comes along, women do the same thing. Don't take it personally...it's just the nature of the beast.

Same thing can and does happen if you meet them in a club, at work, school....etc. But I agree internet dating sucks.

 

[Squid]

Originally posted by ketostix
Same thing can and does happen if you meet them in a club, at work, school....etc. But I agree internet dating sucks.

Yes, but when it comes to internet dating a woman can have around 30 emails in one day where as she will not be hit on that many times during the day at work, school, etc. There's just too much volume on the internet.

 

[sapphire]

Yes, even ugly to average looking girls get bombarded by e-mails. You can just imagine the good looking ones.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by sapphire
Yes, even ugly to average looking girls get bombarded by e-mails. You can just imagine the good looking ones.

When I was on matchmaker.com everytime I logged in my mailbox alert never stopped flashing. I never got a chance to look at profiles unless I made myself invisible. If I stayed logged in I would be stuck in my mailbox for hours. That's actually about the best online dating site there is, and there were a lot of members.

 

[dig it]

matchmaker.


honey, i hope you aint there anymore.

sheesh.

u are an internet junky.

we know why u are here now....its to learn about us.


so we are one and the same?

yes.

Welcome wyldfire.

welcome indeed.


Oh, and you want some d!ck with that.


....to illustrate life revolves around sex.

now you are on the right track.

But get off the net chat rooms and matchmakers, no sex on them i would think.

 

[Climax]

Think about it this way...

I neva read all the replies, but here is what i think.... I'll make it simple and short....

You were a rebound guy and she was using you to make her "ex" or wateva jelous, its as simple as that, and NOW, they are probably togeather, and she told him that u meant nothing to her and she promised him that she wouldnt talk to you anymore... makes sence now that i point it out, dont it?


Laterz...