"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A situation any of you DJ'z could very well be in

Have you ever been in a similar situation?

  • Yes

    Votes: 3 75.0%
  • No

    Votes: 1 25.0%

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    4

sharpjunk

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I will give you the story as simple as possible although we all know that these storie's can go way beyond that. Well, theirs a girl that i just began to take notice of my junior year. She is a freshman in highschool at another school. Whenever me and her got together one of my best friends would also be with us, one nite me and her made out in the car while he was driving us home. Next day friend tells me that he is kind of interested in her and that she has told him that she likes both me and him. I get jealouse because i am a weak **** but try to play it cool and tell my friend that he can have her.

Now i still would not mind getting with her but whats a cool way of me sneakily getting the girl without making it very obviouse i did not try to so that my friend does not get angry.

Another thing is that i am pretty skilled with women but my friend has the ability to make a women laugh unlike me, but he has not been with a girl in over 3 years because he just does not know how to make moves so therfore i do have a better chance than him and i have already made out with the girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Veyron

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nope never been in that situation i go after what i want,but subtly not to seem desperate.

go after her if you truly think you can get her.
 

Yam84

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You should get her to like you better, so you don't get any of the blame.
 

oakraiderz2

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Attract her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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