"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A situation any of you DJ'z could very well be in

Have you ever been in a similar situation?

  • Yes

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  • No

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sharpjunk

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I will give you the story as simple as possible although we all know that these storie's can go way beyond that. Well, theirs a girl that i just began to take notice of my junior year. She is a freshman in highschool at another school. Whenever me and her got together one of my best friends would also be with us, one nite me and her made out in the car while he was driving us home. Next day friend tells me that he is kind of interested in her and that she has told him that she likes both me and him. I get jealouse because i am a weak **** but try to play it cool and tell my friend that he can have her.

Now i still would not mind getting with her but whats a cool way of me sneakily getting the girl without making it very obviouse i did not try to so that my friend does not get angry.

Another thing is that i am pretty skilled with women but my friend has the ability to make a women laugh unlike me, but he has not been with a girl in over 3 years because he just does not know how to make moves so therfore i do have a better chance than him and i have already made out with the girl.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Veyron

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nope never been in that situation i go after what i want,but subtly not to seem desperate.

go after her if you truly think you can get her.
 

Yam84

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You should get her to like you better, so you don't get any of the blame.
 

oakraiderz2

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Attract her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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