"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A simple tip with big results

Slickster

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There are so many guys out there confused about how to succeed with women. Without fail these guys have a lack of respect for themselves.

Success in this game is entirely dependent on respecting yourself. You must be far more selective about who you allow into your life. There are SO many available women. There is NO time to waste on silly women who play games and cause you grief. Anything less than this attitude is placing women and sex above yourself. This is why so many men fail and the ones who have it figured out find it so damn easy.

Whenever you find yourself with "girl problems" it is most always a result of your own lack of respect for yourself. In some cases it has been going on for so long that you are completely unaware and looking to place the blame on her or some other outside force.

Start truly respecting yourself and you will realize how easy it all really is.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Very short tip but I agree 100%. When you put yourself first and have enough respect to realize that you deserve more than being tested and treated badly I think the women can sense it and stop with the bull****ting. I've pissed off several women because I refused to crawl for them while most PuAs probably would try to C%F and work their charm I'll simply tell them bye and hope the door slam them on their way out.

Having high self respect will mean that you'll next a lot of women, but those are trash women anyway. I never got the whole thing about "seducing women" what's the point? It's a lot more rewarding to have self respect and try to find out if the women are worth having or not than to try to "persuade them" into liking you. Lower success rate, less work but better quality women. :)
 

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EXACTLY.... Out of all women I can't take are the ones who can't stand if the guy is in control of things. These are the ones who usually use guys for emotional tampons and are never content with a guy. Thus going through many of them in a short amount of time. Most the time self-esteem issues are to blame.

I was starting to developed oneitis for one recently, but I cut off all contact and deleted her number. She did not value me nor my time. I don't need a person like that in my life not even as just a friend. Focusing on me now and moving forward. She'll see me one day guaranteed with a smile on my face, things going for me and a nice broad on my arm. :)
 
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