A simple tip to deal with flaking.

[lookyoung]

Let me first say this. I respect both sides of the argument, no hate emanating from me, I can see what you're both getting at.

But I agree with Killa and the diamond analogy.

Already you're fixating on a girl who is in all likeliness NOT fixating on you. Who is in the driving seat?...'hmmm, gee, let me think about that one Bob'

If a woman did that to you would you be all "Hmmm, she needs to re address her looks, she must be confident, why didn't see it before!?"

I am not fixating on a girl. I am sending her a text that will take 10 seconds. My goal would be to get a date and then bang her. My stats are that I bang about 50% of the girls I go out on a date with. So if me sending a pic that takes 10 seconds to do will get me laid. Why not.

With this technique you will get a date 20% of the time. Try it.

 

[typical]

Um OK being a man has nothing to do with the fact that your a big muscle bound guy that benches alot and knows how to fight, where I'm from you don't just fight for the hell of it unless of course you want to have a car full of thugs drive by and gun you down, then sure go ahead fight whenever you want to.

Also no one asked how many girls you've banged or dated, so enough with the bragging please (I know you were just defending yourself and not bragging I'm just making a sarcastic point).

See you contradict yourself by saying you want a quality girl yet you also want to be able to bang nearly every hot thing that walks. I don't want to point the finger but you don't seem like a quality guy that a quality girl would want to be in a relationship. Also your need to say your big and muscly screams out "I'm insecure be scared of me as I will smash you into oblivion" (Another sarcastic comment).

OK enough with the hating, now lets get to the point, if your looking to just bang then sure your way is sweet, but if you don't have the time to deal with crap then don't play dumb mind games. Simple its your choice.

 

[vegas_pimp]

lookyoung is right, this is a version of "Pinging" - and it DOES work and you DONT waste any time doing it

theres a good sosuave post on it:


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105467&highlight=Pinging

 

[lookyoung]

lookyoung is right, this is a version of "Pinging" - and it DOES work and you DONT waste any time doing it

theres a good sosuave post on it:


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105467&highlight=Pinging

LOL. I guess my way is a version of pinging. Nice find vegas pimp. Nice points in that thread. Note how he actually fvcks a girl after 6 months. One message is all it takes.

 

[blueguy]

First it should be noted that this is a last ditch effort.

If you had the tightest game in the bar/club/bookstore, it wouldn't be necessary. That's been pointed out.

What should also be pointed out is that both us guys and girls tend to forget a large majority of the people we meet any given night unless they are a 9-10 on our personality/looks scale, which is rare.

This is like pinging and any girl with a certain sense of humor will be able to pick up on that you are not insecurely qualifying yourself but rather mocking an insecure qualification or well-known AFC trait, which is indeed funny and can fly if you have the right look and personality.

 

[blueguy]

I think if you could pull off the ben stiller zoolander face, that would be great too.

 

[lookyoung]

First it should be noted that this is a last ditch effort.

If you had the tightest game in the bar/club/bookstore, it wouldn't be necessary. That's been pointed out.

What should also be pointed out is that both us guys and girls tend to forget a large majority of the people we meet any given night unless they are a 9-10 on our personality/looks scale, which is rare.

This is like pinging and any girl with a certain sense of humor will be able to pick up on that you are not insecurely qualifying yourself but rather mocking an insecure qualification or well-known AFC trait, which is indeed funny and can fly if you have the right look and personality.

Exactly you get what this tip is all about. Now if the girl sees you and has a high interest level in you then its obvious she will return your first phone call PRONTO!

This works best with girls that have a moderate interest level in you.

I disagree about having the tightest game. You could have the tightest game but still get flaked on. Maybe the girl only dates white guys or black guys or geeks or rich guys or whatever. If you don't fit into that category than your out of luck.

All around this is a tip that works. Everyone should try it before they knock it. Is this tip going to get you a date with every girl that does not call you back after the coldapproach? No, but it is better than the other alternatives.