"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

A simple test to predict her nature

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
Here is a simple test that I use when on a date with a girl.

At some point while being the ladies man (perhaps after opening the door for her) walk slowly or stop.

If she walks too far ahead of you or looks annoyed then you know she is a selfish b-itch that doesn't know how to show appreciation for the things you do. Don't even consider a relationship with her.

I have performed this test several times and in each case it was 100% correct. It predicted her nature way in advance.

Case 1.

One time I did this test I had a hot latino girl stop and walk back toward me. It didn't feel right for her to walk infront of me. I guess being in that position wasn't natural for her .

Still dating this girl .

Case 2:

A sweet asian girl I was dating never once walked a head of me. She was hanging off me. I was like... shi-t.. this girl has it right.

A few dates later, this girl ASKED me to grab her ass at the end of the date! I was like.. um.. ok!!!! I'm still dating her. I guess her ass is sensitive or something.

Case 3:
A typical hot white Canadian chick pulled the entire routine about paying for her share, not letting me open the door for her, walking ahead of me, etc.. I was like f-uck off bi-tch, ended the date and told her to get out of my car for not showing respect. the next day she said she was sorry.


My conclusion is this.

Most North american girls are sick in the head with their independance. They are very insecure and are always trying to prove that they are independant. There is a huge difference between a woman that is independant and one that is trying to prove that she is. 99.9% of girls in the US are trying to prove sh-it. It is so f-ucking annoying. You guys will say.. "oh but I like girls that pay" The problem is that she isn't doing it to be nice. That isn't the reason she is paying. She is paying to prove that she is independant. You see, in her mind she doesn't naturally feel equal to you. It also gives her an excuse to avoid showing any level of appreciation for you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
Sean O said:
You're seriously overreacting, man.
Only if I was desperate and failed to qualify my women.

"Make her qualify" enough said.
 
Joined
Mar 18, 2006
Messages
3,956
Reaction score
37
Actually DDKevin, this was an insightful post and you stated exactly how to properly handle these types - and they obeyed your lead because you acknowledged your manhood!!! If more men would have this mindset of putting women in "their" place then women wouldn't dare to be so bold today!

Good job! :up:
 

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
Last Man Standing said:
Actually DDKevin, this was an insightful post and you stated exactly how to properly handle these types - and they obeyed your lead because you acknowledged your manhood!!! If more men would have this mindset of putting women in "their" place then women wouldn't dare to be so bold today!

Good job! :up:
Let me tell you that ever since I started Kendo I've had to learn what respect means. I've applied this same understanding of respect to my entire life. That includes how I deal with women
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Joined
Mar 18, 2006
Messages
3,956
Reaction score
37
00Kevin said:
Let me tell you that ever since I started Kendo I've had to learn what respect means. I've applied this same understanding of respect to my entire life. That includes how I deal with women
Kendo (剣道, Kendō?) or "way of the sword", is the martial art of Japanese fencing.

Kendo developed from traditional techniques of Japanese swordsmanship known as kenjutsu.


Ok kid, just don't chop them up into pieces if they don't obey you! :rolleyes:
 

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
Last Man Standing said:
Kendo (剣道, Kendō?) or "way of the sword", is the martial art of Japanese fencing.

Kendo developed from traditional techniques of Japanese swordsmanship known as kenjutsu.


Ok kid, just don't chop them up into pieces if they don't obey you! :rolleyes:

wow.. you know nothing about kendo.
 

eyedogg

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
158
Reaction score
4
Great Post man!

I totally agree with you on this test. I have seen played out exactly as you described. Even for stranger chicks whom you are being a gentleman with at a store - I have opened the door for them and they just walkin or out and do not even look at you, acknowledge your act, or say anything - now, I don't open doors for strangers.

I think a lot of has to do with how they were raised (when speaking of north american girls) or the ethnicity (where respect for men is demanded or just a way of life where it's not sick & twisted male dominance).

Lastly, where did you pick up on the Kendo deal, local teacher, I am curious.

Peace,
eyedogg
 

ryannath

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 10, 2006
Messages
715
Reaction score
3
I've had similar experience with this. I was out on a date with a girl once where she paid for my food. I was gonna pay for mine and let her pay for hers, but when i went to pay mine, she said, "No, I got it." Needless to say, that had never happened to me before and I really didn't know what to say. I said, "I wanna pay for my own food." But, still, she was like, "No, I got it." So, she paid for her food and mine. Guess she really liked me. I felt kinda bad about not paying though for some reason. Kinda like, I'm the guy I should pay feeling. At least for my own. Oh well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
ryannath said:
I've had similar experience with this. I was out on a date with a girl once where she paid for my food. I was gonna pay for mine and let her pay for hers, but when i went to pay mine, she said, "No, I got it." Needless to say, that had never happened to me before and I really didn't know what to say. I said, "I wanna pay for my own food." But, still, she was like, "No, I got it." So, she paid for her food and mine. Guess she really liked me. I felt kinda bad about not paying though for some reason. Kinda like, I'm the guy I should pay feeling. At least for my own. Oh well.
You should of said, "No you don't" .

The problem I have with that situation is that she is not being nice to you. She is basically steping on your balls and saying... "guess what?. I don't need you."

If you think she is doing it because she really likes you that is also totally wrong. You see if she pays for everything she owes you nothing and doesn't have to show any level of appreciation for you. It is also very disrespectfull. What could be worse then a woman that stops you from being a ladies man? It is a form of co-ck blocking.

Some people might think it is going too far, but this problem is like a snow ball effect. If you are disrespected once and you let it happen, you will be disrespected over and over again until you can't recover.

Of course if you wanted to be a slick DJ you could slip a few 20s in her pocket without her knowing. That way you could tell her later on the phone and take your balls back. Imagine how she will feel when she realizes that you were in control of the entire situation.
 

PathGoer

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 22, 2003
Messages
21
Reaction score
0
A Dog thinks : "The Man gives me food. He must be God"

A Cat thinks: "The Man gives me food. I must be God."
 

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
PathGoer said:
A Dog thinks : "The Man gives me food. He must be God"

A Cat thinks: "The Man gives me food. I must be God."
The Man feeds the cat to his Dog, now he is God
 

Chosen1

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2005
Messages
708
Reaction score
5
Location
South Bend
Yep, it's true I noticed the same thing and I don't even date. They want to be treated as equal until they see what men do and then it's over. I respect women that can truly handle their own and don't look for men for much. But ladies it's ok to let your guard down sometimes.
 

realsmoothie

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2006
Messages
1,064
Reaction score
9
00Kevin said:
A typical hot white Canadian chick pulled the entire routine about paying for her share, not letting me open the door for her, walking ahead of me, etc.. I was like f-uck off bi-tch, ended the date and told her to get out of my car for not showing respect. the next day she said she was sorry.
You treat her like that and she said she was SORRY? Some girls really ARE dumb.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

DonDan

Banned
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
227
Reaction score
0
Kevin thats BS you are spreading, about not letting a woman pay for your dinner. Where the hell did you ever get this idea? Whenever a woman is willing TO DO SOMETHING for you, ALWAYS accept it. Otherwise she will think you deny her favour because u feel as if ur not worth it.... Im sure the DJS of the site will agree with me. Besides, denying favours will make them feel as if you dont appreciate it therefore they wont try to do it again from past failures... so always accept.
 

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
DonDan said:
Kevin thats BS you are spreading, about not letting a woman pay for your dinner. Where the hell did you ever get this idea? Whenever a woman is willing TO DO SOMETHING for you, ALWAYS accept it. Otherwise she will think you deny her favour because u feel as if ur not worth it.... Im sure the DJS of the site will agree with me. Besides, denying favours will make them feel as if you dont appreciate it therefore they wont try to do it again from past failures... so always accept.
When you have a refence point of how respectfull and appreciative non-western women are and what kind of garbage western women are you will understand.

The fact is I don't appreciate it when a woman tries to be the provider. I'm sorry but that is my role by nature. Furthermore, part of my job on the date is to qualify her level of appreciation for my nature as a man.

It is very important that you have a sense of self worth because if you don't then you won't have a good relationship. I honestly can't think of anything more insulting then a woman that wants to prove that she is the provider in the relationship.

All I want is for a woman to let me provide for her and for her to show appreciation for it. It is such a simple thing to ask for and yet there are so man americanized women who want to act like men and not like women. Even worse are all the fools who don't even know how to act like men.

That is the heart of this issue. Why would any man who isn't bent want to date another man (or rather a woman that acts like a man)?

A woman that has respect for you is generally more quiet, non-aggressive, and non-confrontational. You can say that you want a "strong" and "independent" woman. If you think that way, then unfortunately you have been brainwashed and sissified by western politically correct media.

And trust me, all women do want your money despite all their "independence" rhetoric.
 

00Kevin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,962
Reaction score
21
Location
toronto
realsmoothie said:
You treat her like that and she said she was SORRY? Some girls really ARE dumb.
You are correct she was stupid for being so disrespectfull.

Thats not my problem though, I have several other women who do show appreciation.
 

Charm

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 18, 2003
Messages
1,268
Reaction score
11
Age
43
^^ Agreed. You shouldn't be spending time worrying about predicting anything. She is a woman. She is a sexual creature who wants sex. Nature is simple.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Top