"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A simple test to predict her nature

Sean O

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00Kevin said:
The fact is I don't appreciate it when a woman tries to be the provider. I'm sorry but that is my role by nature. Furthermore, part of my job on the date is to qualify her level of appreciation for my nature as a man.
You honestly sound kind of insecure to me, man. What if she's just being appreciative of the fact that you've taken her out and shown her a great time? What if she's doing it to try to win your approval? Both of those things are GOOD signs, and yet you somehow are insulted by it? And even if we assume that she IS trying to prove her independence, what's the big deal? Let her deal with her inferiority complex however she wants, man. Besides, it doesn't necessarily mean that she's going to be a b1tch. It won't even necessarily mean that she won't be appreciative of what you do for her.

You said earlier that "most North American girls are sick in the head with their independance" and that "they are very insecure and are always trying to prove that they are independant". You seem to be doing a similar thing with being the "alpha dog" who's in control of everything.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I love Hyori Lee

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This post is actually pretty true.

Another way to test the same girl is to make her something that you made yourself. Something that actually shows you spent some time and care into it..but something that was "free". Give it to her and don't say anything.

The shallow ones don't mention the gift.
 
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