"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A simple questionare.....

Morphiex

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what do you think of when you think of an indian ?

what do you think when you see a guy in a turban ?

what do you think when a guy says hes indian ?


just wondering about this , thanks to all the serious posters and thanks to all you who are trying to be funny .... :nervous:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think of a guy who talks "like dees, aund he vorks at sevon eelevon"

In all honesty though I'm just joking I don't have anything against anyone, any race, or any thing that breathes for that matter.
 

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Morphiex said:
what do you think of when you think of an indian ?
I wonder why I'm thinking about indians.

what do you think when you see a guy in a turban ?
If you get hat hair when you wear a hat, do you get turban hair when you wear a turban? ...I want one. That thing is kool.

what do you think when a guy says hes indian ?
Ok.
Are you, by chance, an Indian fellow?
 

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Morphiex said:
what do you think of when you think of an indian ?

what do you think when you see a guy in a turban ?

what do you think when a guy says hes indian ?


just wondering about this , thanks to all the serious posters and thanks to all you who are trying to be funny .... :nervous:
Ok, I will answer the questionnaire out of simple curiosity, before this thread gets closed by the mods...:whistle:

- An indian is some one who has indian heritage. Either dravidian(darker skin) or not. I think many of the whiter non dravidian indian chicks are hot, you know like the ones you see in bollywood movies. Damn, there was this hot and classy indian babe in my spanish class, with beauty and brains, just gotta love them.
The guys, I don't know... But I do feel that the darker skinned indians are ugly... Sorry, being a Chinese, that's how the standards of beauty are like in East Asia, whether it's Japan, China or Korea. Dark = Ugly

- I can only assume he's a Sik. Although I do respect people's religious beliefs and customs, I still consider this kind of ancient practice rather backward. The same way muslim women wearing burqa or big azz scarves (the normal sized ones are ok)

- It really depends how he says it. If it's like "I'm Indian" like I would say "I'm Chinese" or "I'm French", he's just presenting himself. But if it's like with some "proud Indians" who proclaim that they are Indians, "we indians this", "we indiands that", I only take pity in them. It's simply a sign of insecurity

Hope this answers your question.:p
 

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Ace of Flames said:
Are you, by chance, an Indian fellow?
yes dat is troo ....

yeah im just wondering , cuz of curiosity , only know what most norwegians think of indians kinda interested what the rest of the world views indians like......

90 % of the replys will hold stereotypical remarks from media as movies ; seven elleven and taxi drivers.... but im also interested in the other ten % ....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when i think indians , i think teepees and bows and arrows .
 

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Who cares what people think?b What is this thing abt getting the approval of the white-man? I am an Indian and don't give a sh!t if people think all sterotypical bs when they see me. Sterotypes are stupid, period. Its like saying all Yanks are ****in redneck warmongers who have nothing better to do than put their ass in a gas guzzling SUV and eat burger and play baseball or some **** like that. And all Brits are stupid ultra leftwingers who have nothing better to do than go drunk to a football(the real one, not the gridiron) game and create trouble.

PS: This thread reeks of tooooooooo much insecurity.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Morphiex said:
yes dat is troo ....

yeah im just wondering , cuz of curiosity , only know what most norwegians think of indians kinda interested what the rest of the world views indians like......

90 % of the replys will hold stereotypical remarks from media as movies ; seven elleven and taxi drivers.... but im also interested in the other ten % ....
Doo-ooood, you forgot tons of software engineers in the silicon valley and a sh!tload of doctors in NHS and profs at lotsa major universities around the world. Just wait and watch as Mital goes around buying all the steel companies around the world and TCS and Wipro and Infy kick some solid @ss.
 

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djtdot said:
Who cares what people think?b What is this thing abt getting the approval of the white-man? I am an Indian and don't give a sh!t if people think all sterotypical bs when they see me. Sterotypes are stupid, period. Its like saying all Yanks are ****in redneck warmongers who have nothing better to do than put their ass in a gas guzzling SUV and eat burger and play baseball or some **** like that. And all Brits are stupid ultra leftwingers who have nothing better to do than go drunk to a football(the real one, not the gridiron) game and create trouble.

PS: This thread reeks of tooooooooo much insecurity.
hehe
yeah you hit that right on the nail..... o_O

frst of all im not asking about myself , im asking a generall question because of curiosity ....

second of all , "the white man" ? who said im asking the white man , im asking everyone here , black white asian jews for ****s sake they could be purple and i wouldnt give a sh¨it.....

3rd , you reek of more insecurity when you lash out like that over some simple questions..... then being curious ...

4rth if you read my posts you would see im not looking for the sterotpical answers im looking for the other ten % ...

5th im just curious , should i live in ignorance because i dont want to be percieved as insecure by a guy over the internet who i will probably never meet and never know... ?
 
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