"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A Simple Question

CoRVeTTe6699

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Hello this question is going to sound very silly.

i tend to overanalyze things and i have a question burning on my mind - please dont rip on me...BTW, im 18 years old


tomorrow night im going out with a girl to the movies. this is the first time im ever going out with her. i just met her recently at work and spoke to her several times.. she told me to calll her and GAVE me her number so i know shes interested in me.

ill see how it goes and ill decide whether its awkward or not to put my arm around her in the theatre...

but here is my main question... when i drive her home, i am going to kiss her goodnight. do i kiss her on the lips? cheek? make out? give me some advice please
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cheiradawg

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Chill out hombre.

Overall the answer to your problem is in the second line. "I tend to overanalyze and..blah blah blah"

Simple solution - don't overanalyze and the question doesn't even get asked? Don't worry about it. You shouldn't worry about it. Worrying will fVck you up? Hopefully you are convienced.

Seeing how it goes in the theater is a good idea. Do the same thing with the kiss.
 

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Kiss goodnight? FYCKING AFC LAME. Make physical attraction happen. Create sexual state.

But bottomline, make it an INTERACTIVE process that you are ENGAGING her (which is why movies are LAME) constantly through the date. That way, the "goodnight kiss" isn't some arbitrary, predetermined event defined by the termination of the date. It's something spontaneously created during the interaction. Hell, throw her on her lap and give her a quick peck. Act like it's not a big fycking deal.

A repost of some shyt just for your SPECIAL FLOWER ASS.

The idea is to induce a state of sexual attraction in her by being ACTION ORIENTED, but also inducing a state of vaccuum where, once she has started thinking SEXUAL THOUGHTS ABOUT YOU, you take it away.

  • Wiggle your eyebrows at her.
    [*]Ask her to turn around, check her out, and make a suggestive comment.
    [*]Touch her nose.
    [*]Caress her lip area with your finger.
    [*]Smile and lick your lips.
    [*]Do a twist & dip, move in for a kiss, but then back out saying, "Oh my god, I can't believe I tried to kiss my little sister!"
    [*]Slap her ass.
    [*]Pinch her ass.
    [*]Caress her ass.
    [*]Accuse HER of slapping/pinching/caressing your ass.
    [*]Grab her breasts (or pretend grab).
    [*]Ask her to stick her tongue out and lean in, but don't kiss (or kiss).
    [*]Whisper into her ear.
    [*]Whisper into her ear and blow into it.
    [*]As you are whispering into her ear (and/or blowing into it), accidentally press your arm against her breast (as in your arm as pressed against your chest, you're just leaning your chest in).
    [*]Kiss both of her cheeks.
    [*]Caress her jawline.
    [*]Touch her hair.
    [*]Take/ask her hands, pull HER into YOU, then push her away saying "Your eyes are sooo beautiful... Oh my god, you're trying to SEDUCE ME!".
    [*]BUT ABOVE ALL, INVADE/CONTROL/DOMINATE HER PHYSICAL SPACE AND THEN TAKE IT AWAY (ie ADVANCE AND RETREAT).


Good night kiss is lame and AFC:
Caveman her. Mess around with her. Pinch her ass while she's bowling, kiss her when she's about to make her shot. When you greet, do a full body hug, 360 whirlwind hug, and kiss on boths cheeks.
Twirl her around, project sexual state, be C&F, take away, compliment then neg, neg then compliment. Be affectionate, then take it away. Be physical and then tell her you think of her as your little sister.
Listen, by the sheer fact that you are on a date (ie D2) with ANY girl means that she has decided YOU have passed the threshhold from NONFYCKABLE to FYCKABLE. You should be thinking F-close, BJ-close, Handjob-close, etc.
Do not treat her like a SEXLESS PERSON and she won't treat YOU like a SEXLESS DRONE.


Kino stuff:
Tickle.
Playful punches.
Playful pushes.
Go for a hi-5 and pull in for a hug.
Go for a hi-5, spin her 360, and pull in for a hug.
Go for a hi-5, spin her 360, pull her in for a hug, and go for a quick peck on the lips.
Go for a hi-5, spin her 360, pull her in for a hug, spin her 360, and go for a quick peck on the lips.
Throw her over your shoulder.
Play thumbwars.
Playfully slap her ass.
Booty bump her away from the snack machine and say HEY STOP HOGGING THE MACHINE!
 
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