"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dr.Jay

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Hows it going, I'm new and hope to become a dj.and i have a problem that i hope someone can help with? well heres my story Im 19 and just finished my first year in collage. I'm working as at a resturaunt and always have some girl complementing me on my looks, smiling at me and women hitting on me all the time but my problem is i don't know how to get them. the guys in the forums I've read make it seem so easy if your a good looking guy getting hit on by women but when it comes to me,i feel like when i try to get them i end up pushing them away. i act confident, make them laugh, and don't act to aggressive but i just don't get whats going wrong with my situation? if someone can help me with this problem it would take a large weight from off shoulders
much appreciated.
a future don
Dr.jay
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Greasy Pig

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Maybe escalating is your problem.
You not only have to recognise IOIs but then act on them.
If a girl compliments you, say something ****y and funny and ask for her number.

Have you read the DJ Bible? It is your friend.
 

Dr.Jay

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wow escalating i never thought about that, but whats the Dj bible??
 

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Dr.Jay said:
wow escalating i never thought about that, but whats the Dj bible??
Are you kidding? 2 months here and youve not read it?:box:
scroll down and click the link at the bottom of the page, it will take you there:D
 
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