A simple easy concept that we all know but none of us follow

[Who Dares Win]

Simple, if you have any chance with a girl you can tell in a very short amount of time, if its not working or your gut (which is much more socially intelligent than your brain) alarms you, you better move and save time.

Dont believe such bvllsh1t as that girl have to be conquered with drinks or flowers or other stuff.

Especially true in clubs while performing cold approaches, if she doesnt smile or doesnt keep eye contact or doesnt make any effort to keep in touch with you, accept that nothing is gonna happen, just like you know if you like a girl looking at her for few seconds,the same is true for them.
Game is about not screwing up but attraction cannot be created it either there is from beginning or not at all.

And btw if a girl really likes you she will do an effort to make your life easier, if she mention a good place to visit for example or ask you personal question or provide long replies to yours which allow the conversation to flow.

Dont believe in bvll**** like "my phone was broken" or "I've been very busy all week"....busy all week to reply to a fkn text? u kidding me b1tch?

Now remember in your life what happened all the time you got a girl and you will remember that she toke ACTIVE part in it, fueling your attempt and in some cases even taking initiave.

Is if its not working with a girl just leave, you are wasting time anyway despite her fake interest to keep you around anytime you get far and most of all dont overinflate their ego for the other guys coming after you.

 

[Sirius]

Well, yeah...

I agree with this theory, because there is really something telling us if that is going to work or not... But it is not impossible at all to have something to grow afterwards, even if there was no attraction at the first contact, although I think it is more difficult...

 

[PapiChulo]

Great post. I figure the worst problem is with the fact that many will like your attention despite having zero interest. It is harder to tell right then because it seems like you are making progress. They think that if a cute young guy has approached them, there could be a cute young guy with money that will potentially approach them. Do it x10 and they think they could date Brad Pitt.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Great post. I figure the worst problem is with the fact that many will like your attention despite having zero interest. It is harder to tell right then because it seems like you are making progress. They think that if a cute young guy has approached them, there could be a cute young guy with money that will potentially approach them. Do it x10 and they think they could date Brad Pitt.

Thats true, this is why we make a move or get close to see her reaction,its the only way to "test" if they like us or are faking.

Grabbing her hand or simply get closer and see if she stands and is not bothered or create space back and act annoyed, gives a sure answer.
Thats what I do in clubs and it saves me time and frustration.