A Seriuos Questions To The Senior Don Juans

[ALPHAROMEO]

rite you see this hb doing some windowshopping
there s no props about her you can comment on

what do you say to her?
HOW DO YOU MAKE THE CONVO LAST 2 to 3 MINUTES?

A R
I PERSONALLY use scripted openers but how do THE OL PROS manage to open in the absence of props? and without scripted openers

 

[schttrj]

either start with catchy kinda something....or a simple hi...both will work...as long as u r congruent to it and r showing high value...

and high value can be measured in a like a meter with two extremes... one extreme you don't have any interest in her and the other extreme you are all over her....just stay in the middle...

 

[schttrj]

oh by the way, get her to elicit value from you as well....so more of expression, more of giving value in intermittent manner...get her to chase you for the value that you give....

and don't be clear until you are sure she is completely attracted to you...keep it subtle....leave it to her imagination...let her guess....

 

[DonGorgon]

Well its best if she chooses you first of gives a sign of interest but if not make sure you are well dressed and confident then say anything as long as its smooth and clear.

 

[scrouds]

Just walk up to her, grab her ass, and run before the cops show.

Really... you make interesting conversation. That's how it can last an hr if you let it. "What's that?" is an opener i've used before with decent success. Just hope she has something interesting around her.

 

[Daydream Engineer]

Window shopping.... talk about the environment and the merchandise.Or say.. hey cool girl... what do you think about this _______?

 

[ALPHAROMEO]

Washin Liquid

cool
i could say " i need to buy my favorite niece a bag for her birthday that s a cool bag what do u think?

IT S HER BIRTHDAY TODAY I NEVER KNOW WHAT TO BUY HER

WHAT DID U GET ON YOUR BIRTHDAY?
A CONSTANT SUPLLY OF WASHIN LIQUID? ( negging )


ACTUALLY I m NOT GOOD AT CLEANING THE DISHES MY PAST GIRLFRIEND D CRITIQUE ME LOADS FOR DOIN IT WRONGLY ( social proff )


Sometimes it s hard to segue into something else

hence my stacking the openers

 

[schttrj]

you know where's the prob...you are thinking too much..you are not congruent....

when you are approaching someone hot with an opinion opener, unless it's really spontaneous and indirect, she knows you are hitting on her...and then you don't really neg her....negging is when you fake 100% disinterest or for her bad behavior in the middle of the interaction...you want to TEASE!

...playfully...she knows you want her but just you are giving her some challenge! in the form that she is not being sure whether she has you fully or not.

got it?

and by the way..**** the opener...open with anything, you are showing interest anyway, so do it unique.

 

[Night Owl]

Ask her if she is 'checking men out in the reflection of the window'.... !!

Then tell her you caught her doing it - with a cheeky smile..... she will then pour out a number of excuses about simply window shopping.

Just laugh, and promise that you will not tell anybody about her 'secret voyeurism' while a tapping her on the shoulder.... kino.

Then ask if she has seen any hotties, and oh, BTW how do I rate? Hehehehehe