"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A Serious KICK IN THE BALLS

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Hey guys, I had possibly one of the worst experiences with a female I've ever had in my life today. Well a girl msged me on a dating site, she was an 8 to be honest she was a real cutie. I came online msn and she msged me immediately, and when we realized how close we live to each other I said to her we should meet up. She at first was hesitant, but then after agreed and picked me up from my house *HOW PIMP IS THAT?* Well she told me she wanted to grab some weed so we spent alot of time trying to figure out where to get it. From what I could pick up vibes were good and she seemed like a cool girl. Then after I went too one dudes house, I told her to wait...and when I walked in the dudes house SHE DROVE OFF too add to the frustration the dealer whose house I went to didn't have a really good relationship with me and was extremely rude and an idiot. To sum it up, I was really pissed off and I knew realistically I shouldnt have called the girl to see what the **** was going on. She was pretty aloof and told me she was scared "I am a big guy" and that she didnt like how I was bossy. But still that dosent justify driving off with no warning and leave me dead in the dirt like that...what have I learned from this experience? Dont get into a car with a stranger...*****es are extremely illogical...and im gonna stay CLEAR from the club/druggie type of girls...but majority of girls are into that ****...i uno ive never had this experience before and i didnt like it. she said sorry but i know she dont give a **** which pisses me off even more, i mean if i had an ugly chick that i found off a site i wouldnt just leave drop her off and drive off that **** aint funny..not at all...and im a good looking guy too i dun understand this at all..

its unfortunate though, she seemed OK at the least. and now it seems like by DJ rules and even my own since its the first time meeting her im just gonna have to cut her off..which is unfortunate cause shes cute but you know whaT? **** it..and **** her i trust the universe to supply my abundance of *****
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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matygee said:
Well she told me she wanted to grab some weed so we spent alot of time trying to figure out where to get it.
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This was at least your first clue that she is a hor -- say "No" to hos!!!!
 
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I may be wrong, but isn't weed legal in Canada? Correct me if i'm wrong.
 
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LOL SHE LEFT U haha **** man, tell that ***** straight up,

better yet! be like its ok, im sorry for comming on too strong, build some comfort.. then Pikc HER UP and drive her out of no where and be like B1TCH GET OUT OF HTE FUKING CAR and look MEAN, i mean REAL MEAN. turn into the hulk if u have oto..

now that would be funny
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah she was ****ed....i dont have a car so i cant pull that **** on her. but honestly i didn feel any bad vibes at all this was so un called for and my ego took a big hit i was still am pretty ****ing pissed about what happened. when i asked her if she cared shes like not really i dont really know you.
 
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ryannath said:
I may be wrong, but isn't weed legal in Canada? Correct me if i'm wrong.
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its illegal, but is easy to get and accepted as the norm
 
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This sounds like a perfect learning experience for you. Use this to move forward and become stronger.

Why should you let this bother you? If you allow that to happen, she has just indirectly determined the current state of your life.

"This too shall pass."
 
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thankyou incog great insight
 
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Druggie chicks are sl*ts and should be avoided. If some ho did that to me on a first date, I'd get a look on my face like I smelled something bad, slowly shook my head, said "F***********CK THIS!!!" and walked back in the house.

A first date and she's looking for weed? She's a nut job. Eight or no eight by the third date she'd be looking to score crack. You don't need the AIDS.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I met a Polish chick on a first date who was an 8.5 a while ago. She seemed like F-buddy material. We had coffee and walked around South Street Seaport. This was back when 9/11 security was ridiculous in NYC. There was an NYPD speedboat with a machine gun mounted on the front about 40 feet away.

She started laughing an insane little laugh and said, "I wonder if I start yelling that you're raping me if I can get them to shoot you." (!!!!!!!!!)

I actually did that "F***************CK THIS!!!" thing, walked back to my office, blocked her calls on my cell and blocked her e-mail. Some chicks are dangerously insane. Never take their bait.
 
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