allrighty boys; a series of steps.
step 1. sort your image
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absolutely vital; you sort this and youll be well on your way. dont; and itll be an uphill battle. good image can help you a tonne and save you a lot of work. everyone will have a different style; yes; but please do bear it in mind. you need to be able to look yourself in the mirror and see a guy that girls would want to be with. you'll know it when you have it. keep workin at it until you get it down.
step 2. man up
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manning up. what this means is that you got to think like a man, act like a man, talk like a man, be a man. now again, everyones style is going to be different. but take for instance the following; a man is in control of himself, in control of his life. he dominates. he leads. he's smart. he thinks in ways that bring him up. he can handle fear. he's not needy. he's not insecure. he's a man! its one of those things that you know it when you see it. ask yourself....am i tha man? youll know it if you are or not. if not...fix it.
step 3. personality
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you gotta be able to express yourself!! you got to show everyone who you are. how else are they gonna work out if they like you or not?? so...in order to do that; you have to have something to express. you need to know who you are. in and out. a good personality; one that is well developed; trumps everything. its amazing what you can do with a good one. you can literally hook people, men and women, into your reality. they will hang on your words. they will want to be around you. its very powerful. so....have a personality for gods sake. be someone. it is your most powerful weapon! make use of it. it is your most unique talent. bust it out and everyone will be in awe. of course ,first, you have to build one.
step 4. keep it simple
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i coined this one. it means; dont go overanalysin sh!t. keep everything simple. in the here and now. dont go off on tangents, dont go into whatifs and maybes. just do what ya gotta do and leave it at that. keep things simple and then they are simple. develop the mindset. it ties in with bein a man. men dont get hung up on stupid bullsh!t; like what it meant when one particular girl said such and such. nup, they're constantly on the move. always doing. always moving. they dont get stuck; especially on the small details. they know how to distinguish between what is important and twhat isn't important. the girl you met last week; not important; so keep it simple.
step 5. build a life
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pretty straightforward here. job/hobbies/interests/talents/friends. be social (or not). have places to go. things to do. be busy. have a life.
step 6. have fun
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have fun; and enjoy what you've become. by this stage, getting women is a piece o piss. you walk into the room, straight away you got them noticing you, you approach and they let you because you look the part, you open, you do so easily because you are the man and your mindset so strong, no signs of insecurity or afc'ness, and you are full of confidence and you pull those hotties because you have an interesting exciting life and have plenty to say and all this wrapped up in an awesome unique personality. have fun coz your getting laid.
step 1. sort your image
-----------------------
absolutely vital; you sort this and youll be well on your way. dont; and itll be an uphill battle. good image can help you a tonne and save you a lot of work. everyone will have a different style; yes; but please do bear it in mind. you need to be able to look yourself in the mirror and see a guy that girls would want to be with. you'll know it when you have it. keep workin at it until you get it down.
step 2. man up
--------------
manning up. what this means is that you got to think like a man, act like a man, talk like a man, be a man. now again, everyones style is going to be different. but take for instance the following; a man is in control of himself, in control of his life. he dominates. he leads. he's smart. he thinks in ways that bring him up. he can handle fear. he's not needy. he's not insecure. he's a man! its one of those things that you know it when you see it. ask yourself....am i tha man? youll know it if you are or not. if not...fix it.
step 3. personality
-------------------
you gotta be able to express yourself!! you got to show everyone who you are. how else are they gonna work out if they like you or not?? so...in order to do that; you have to have something to express. you need to know who you are. in and out. a good personality; one that is well developed; trumps everything. its amazing what you can do with a good one. you can literally hook people, men and women, into your reality. they will hang on your words. they will want to be around you. its very powerful. so....have a personality for gods sake. be someone. it is your most powerful weapon! make use of it. it is your most unique talent. bust it out and everyone will be in awe. of course ,first, you have to build one.
step 4. keep it simple
----------------------
i coined this one. it means; dont go overanalysin sh!t. keep everything simple. in the here and now. dont go off on tangents, dont go into whatifs and maybes. just do what ya gotta do and leave it at that. keep things simple and then they are simple. develop the mindset. it ties in with bein a man. men dont get hung up on stupid bullsh!t; like what it meant when one particular girl said such and such. nup, they're constantly on the move. always doing. always moving. they dont get stuck; especially on the small details. they know how to distinguish between what is important and twhat isn't important. the girl you met last week; not important; so keep it simple.
step 5. build a life
--------------------
pretty straightforward here. job/hobbies/interests/talents/friends. be social (or not). have places to go. things to do. be busy. have a life.
step 6. have fun
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have fun; and enjoy what you've become. by this stage, getting women is a piece o piss. you walk into the room, straight away you got them noticing you, you approach and they let you because you look the part, you open, you do so easily because you are the man and your mindset so strong, no signs of insecurity or afc'ness, and you are full of confidence and you pull those hotties because you have an interesting exciting life and have plenty to say and all this wrapped up in an awesome unique personality. have fun coz your getting laid.
