"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr. Cardio

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Sapiens nice post, how much are you gonna charge me to read it? Are you running any discounts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Broken-hearted or not, after giving love 100% it does not make you a DJ. It gives you an important perspective on relationships, such as caution and discernment. Which is good in that it makes you more of a challenge. I don't remember who said this, but being a DJ is not about the girl, it's about improving yourself. It's about creating a better person in every aspect within yourself. Not vaingloriously, but better and striving for excellence all the time.

Look guys, you have a small amount of time on this planet, you might as well make the best of it and live. Don't throw it all away on a chick, you're too valuable. That's why I love this site in that it helps us AFC's to build ourselves better, stronger and more confident.
 
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