Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

A Second Life

whistler

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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
Pook where you actually god in another life?...awesome posts.:cheer:
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Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by whistler
:rolleyes:
what is your ****ing problem and why would feel the need to point out a tongue in cheek compliment?...what an *******

:rolleyes: :mad:
 

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Pook]
There is a great myth that everyone, amazingly, believes: that everyone else is happy, having fun, living life, and you, all alone, are miserable. That everyone is out there, having amazing glorious sex, while you must content yourself with pornos.

This isn’t true. Most people are in the exact same spot as you are. And those ‘glorious unions’ you see everywhere? Most of them are simply scared of being alone, so they go off and grab the nearest available person. The others are 'lying' together with vanity.

The big secret is that happy people aren’t as happy as they appear. Many happy people are actually covering up their real problems. But what do you do? You see one of these ‘happy’ people and then you get unhappy at them! You make yourselves miserable as you arrow nasty thoughts from your mind at them, and they don’t even know you.
Ha! This is so true. To realize that this is actually how people actually are is quite refreshing. And it can allow you to get on with you life once you see how others are struggling to put on a front, instead of struggling to better themselves. Don't settle and be like them; do things your way.

I am not asking you to do this or that with your life, but I am only asking you to pause for a moment and think. What is life to you? Stop and look.
Still looking, but finding that the answers are coming in from places I didn't even expect. And that's a good thing.

Overall though, I think looking at finding this place as an opportunity as a second chance is exactly the way to be going about it. Before sosuave most guys (like me) were probably just your average Nice Guy. We didn't think we were doing anything wrong, we were just socially retarded and couldn't hold a conversation. Now the tables have turned and things are going great (with women, but more importantly life in general).


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Originally posted by Jaun_Don
what is your ****ing problem and why would feel the need to point out a tongue in cheek compliment?...what an *******

:rolleyes: :mad:
Juan Don,

My apologies. It must have seemed more sycophantic than tongue-in-cheek to me at the time.

whistler
 

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Originally posted by whistler
Juan Don,

My apologies. It must have seemed more sycophantic than tongue-in-cheek to me at the time.

whistler
that's fine sorry for flying off the handle, I see your point whistler

peace:D
 

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Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
"Why do my eyes hurt?"


",...because you've never used them."
The SPSS manual got you down?
 

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I'm glad you guys brought this thread up again, because if you hadn't, I would have never gotten to read it. This is truly amazing stuff. It's amazing how much of an inhibitor fear can be in your life. BTW, that "Most People Fake Happiness" section is so spot-on it's not even funny. I've never heard it put that way, but it's so true. I wish I would have read this post a year ago.
 

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a question... anyone can answer... why does he calls himself POOK. and i want to get all his post... how do i do that...anyways peace
 

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AMAZING, gutted I only found this post now! puts a lot of riddled thoughts ive thought for ages into sense!!!!
 
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