A s s h o l e?

[dap]

Some people say that you need to be an a-hole to your freinds so you dont get taken advantage of and to show that you are the "alpha male" or whatever. How big of an as*hole do you think you should be infront of other guys??

 

[ValleyDJing]

Nobody says that s.hit. Just be the alpha male in your group. You don't have to be an a.sshole to be an alpha male. In every group theres always that one guy that decides what they're gonna do. Then there are the guys that just tag along, cause they feel like a loser if they're by themselves. Be the guy that leads. Don't ever tag along with something you don't wanna do.

For example, one night me and my friends were going to a movie. They wanted to see a geeky ass movie and I told them I wasn't gonna see it. They bought tickets, thinking I would too just because everyone else was. F.uck that, I'm my own person. I walked outta the theatre and drove home. They couldn't believe it.

 

[The Shocker]

You're a fvcking idiot, congrats for that.

 

[dap]

I agree ValleyDJing, being an a.sshole isnt the way to go. But the line between ****ey (in ****ey-funny) and a.sshole can get blurred sometimes. There are plenty of people who say just to be a straigt up as.shole, but I'm not sure what I think. (example: http://www.insult-o-matic.com/?article=8 , http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts4214747.aspx , etc)

 

[ValleyDJing]

Well, sometimes a girl will call you an a.sshole in respose to ****y funny. They're usually flirting. Basically, ****y funny is just fine as long as you stay away from touchy subjects like a girls weight, hair, stuff like that. If a girl calls me an a.sshole/jerk/mean, I usually tally it up as a point for me. The only time you're in trouble is when she screams "You're a f.ucking a.sshole!" and starts crying...then you might have f.ucked up.