"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A request in addition to the new post limit rule

War Against Betaism

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No I'm not here to oppose the rule, god knows how many topics and debates have been made already. If we're going to have this post limit rule, can we at least have a counter to know how many we have left? The only time we are told how many posts we have left is when we actually hit our limit. I usually don't use it to my max and sometimes get careless with my posts and post oneliners just for fun, but then when a serious topic comes along and I can't post, it gets a bit irritating. This way we'll have a better way of managing our posts.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Okay can I be heard out on this one? Last night I was writing like a 3 paragraph long reply to a guy's question. I tried to submit it, it was denied because I reached my limit. I go back and all that I wrote disappeared. This is becoming a nuisance, other forums that have these post limit rules usually apply these only to new users and as they gain rank, they have the privilege of more posts. The thing is even if they have these 20, 30, 50, 80 post limit rules, they all still keep track of how many posts you have made in a 24 hour span. I don't want to be strategic about how I use my posts.
 

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/agree

The quality of posts hasn't exactly skyrocketed since the rule came into play

And I had a similar experience where I was writing a few paragraphs and I ended up not being able to post it :/
 

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HandyAndy said:
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The quality of posts hasn't exactly skyrocketed since the rule came into play

And I had a similar experience where I was writing a few paragraphs and I ended up not being able to post it :/
I think that may have been part of ElStud-Gate.

As far as OP, Yeah it's annoying, but i find i only post if i either A: have something to contribute or B: my post gives me lulz.

TBH it's ok with just 10 posts, otherwise there will be people here all night :|
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Same, most of the time I rarely use 10 posts in one day, but there are going to be days when you feel like staying home and even just bum it at the message boards. sosuave is one of my, if not the most, frequently visited message board for me, and it sucks that out of all the message boards I visit and post in, sosuave is the one I spent the least amount of time in because of this.
 
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