"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A request for the girls on the site to help me out...

touge_gc8

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i know this is stupid, but i'd like to make a girl jealous.... i dont wana ask any girls i know, cuz they'll just be like "wow you're a loser"....

could you record a voice clip.... maybe on youtube or something.... that i could play next time my oneitis "friend" calls??....

something like (in a flirty voice tone).....

"i cant believe your actually picking up your phone to another girl when your with me!!"

then i can say relax shes just a friend,

then maybe you could saw ""suuuuure she is.... so what do i qualify as???""" (in a cute flirty way :)

then i'll tell my friend i'm busy and i'll call her back later.. and she can wonder who i'm with all day long


let me know either by responding in this thread or by private message..

thanks!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iqqi

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Um... we are too old for that. ;)

You could just tell her you are busy, and you'll call her back later, without all the obvious BS.

Tell her you are with a friend, and it isn't a good time, but you will call her in a few hours. Then call her 2 days later.

There. Manipulation 101.
 

clix

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dude screw that. just get a blow up doll and carry her around. if a woman sees you with another one (hope she doesnt find out its fake!), they'll want you intensely.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonGorgon

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clix said:
dude screw that. just get a blow up doll and carry her around. if a woman sees you with another one (hope she doesnt find out its fake!), they'll want you intensely.
Hmmm..?
If you hump a blow-up-doll in the forest when no one is around does it make a sound?
 
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