Al parsons
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Hey Guys!
This is my first post here and I hope to find good brothers to help me in the process of Manning up. Please excuse my AFC mentality and my immature and somewhat feminine way of thinking. I hope to one day become a real man.
Here is my story:
As far as I remember I’ve always been an AFC. I though don’t look like an AFC, apparently! That’s what people, men or women, assume when they see me. Girls approach me and talk to me and some even date me cause they think I’m a very manly man but they will scatter once they talk to me or get to know me properly! That is because I’m quite tall (185 cm) and I am muscular to some extent ( I go to the gym to distract myself from the constant disturbing though that I am an AFC). I also can pretend to be confident and talkative when every cell in my body is filled with adrenaline and other **** hormones and feelings and beg me to shut up and go back to my cave. I’m very introvert. I think a lot.
I have a circle of friends but understandably they are all AFC men!
I recently dated a girl who was very attracted to me and my beard and somewhat to my personality. After 1-2 months she realised how needy and frustrated I was and she lost interest, we though kept seeing each other and kept ****ing. At one point I realised she was only seeing me for the sex and for my **** whom she called mango ( for obvious reasons lol) she then ignored me but kept seeing me for sex. Don’t get me wrong she was hot, I was also enjoying the sex. I though, as an AFC, would prefer to be loved! Have someone pay attention to me my hand and pornhub can take care of the sex part! Cut long story short she left me for some other guy. That broke me. I was really broken cause my AFC mind was like “ you lost a very hot girl, you are an AFC, the next one won’t come anytime soon ”
I’ve tried multiple times to change but a force wants me to stay an AFC cause that is what I’m used to.
Has anyone been in similar situation and will you guys be kind enough to give me an indication on what I should do to begin to recover? I just turned 23 and id rather die now than to live like an AFC for the rest of my life.
Cheers
This is my first post here and I hope to find good brothers to help me in the process of Manning up. Please excuse my AFC mentality and my immature and somewhat feminine way of thinking. I hope to one day become a real man.
Here is my story:
As far as I remember I’ve always been an AFC. I though don’t look like an AFC, apparently! That’s what people, men or women, assume when they see me. Girls approach me and talk to me and some even date me cause they think I’m a very manly man but they will scatter once they talk to me or get to know me properly! That is because I’m quite tall (185 cm) and I am muscular to some extent ( I go to the gym to distract myself from the constant disturbing though that I am an AFC). I also can pretend to be confident and talkative when every cell in my body is filled with adrenaline and other **** hormones and feelings and beg me to shut up and go back to my cave. I’m very introvert. I think a lot.
I have a circle of friends but understandably they are all AFC men!
I recently dated a girl who was very attracted to me and my beard and somewhat to my personality. After 1-2 months she realised how needy and frustrated I was and she lost interest, we though kept seeing each other and kept ****ing. At one point I realised she was only seeing me for the sex and for my **** whom she called mango ( for obvious reasons lol) she then ignored me but kept seeing me for sex. Don’t get me wrong she was hot, I was also enjoying the sex. I though, as an AFC, would prefer to be loved! Have someone pay attention to me my hand and pornhub can take care of the sex part! Cut long story short she left me for some other guy. That broke me. I was really broken cause my AFC mind was like “ you lost a very hot girl, you are an AFC, the next one won’t come anytime soon ”
I’ve tried multiple times to change but a force wants me to stay an AFC cause that is what I’m used to.
Has anyone been in similar situation and will you guys be kind enough to give me an indication on what I should do to begin to recover? I just turned 23 and id rather die now than to live like an AFC for the rest of my life.
Cheers