PeoplesChamp
Don Juan
Okay I'm far from being an expert (obviously) but I have come to realize this about the people of this board: Way too many of us here have the wrong "frame." A lot of these so called problems we all have are symptoms of a deeper problem with a dependent self-image or "when things are going good I'm on top, when things are going poorly it's what am I doing wrong." Now I am as guilty of this as anybody...I struggle with it everyday and with every intereaction with women. For any us to ever realize our full potential as DJs this "inner game" issue has to be subjugated, because no matter how good any of us get we're never going to bat 1000. The mindset we should all strive for is "Despite what this women or that woman thinks of me, I deserve and am worthy of getting what I want."
Finally If you listen to what the "experts" from realsocialdynamics or DYD say it's "steal the HB's frame." Why do they encourage that? Just observe any HB you lay eyes on. They have this aura of self worth and superiority that shakes most men to the core. Now this can be broken down for the exact reason it exists. Hot women have never been inoculated from or exposed to criticism and negative apprasial (simply [it they never ever see it). Our job is to aquire geniune, global self worth that is immune to criticism amd negative stimuli while simultaneously attacking their defenseless achilles heel--an inability to react to that which they have no experience with. Negative appraisal. You aren't impressed with the veneer she's been allowed to coast with her whole life and she WILL be impressed you know the secret to effortlessly lowering her "b!tch shield." The result you become the high status guy she bocomes the AFC.
Finally If you listen to what the "experts" from realsocialdynamics or DYD say it's "steal the HB's frame." Why do they encourage that? Just observe any HB you lay eyes on. They have this aura of self worth and superiority that shakes most men to the core. Now this can be broken down for the exact reason it exists. Hot women have never been inoculated from or exposed to criticism and negative apprasial (simply [it they never ever see it). Our job is to aquire geniune, global self worth that is immune to criticism amd negative stimuli while simultaneously attacking their defenseless achilles heel--an inability to react to that which they have no experience with. Negative appraisal. You aren't impressed with the veneer she's been allowed to coast with her whole life and she WILL be impressed you know the secret to effortlessly lowering her "b!tch shield." The result you become the high status guy she bocomes the AFC.