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A realization I've made...

toddC

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Okay boys, I don't know whether this is just from my highschool and past experienced but....getting girls in highschool is COMPLETELY diffrent than getting them in college or in general.

Now why do I say this? The answer is quite simple. I've been lurking around this site for about a year now soaking up all the information I could possibly contain in my head. Then I went out and utalized it. The first time I really used it was when myself and my 5 friends went to the mall. We got bored so I decided to make a game up of who could talk to the most girls that they didn't know. From that point on I realized that this site DID have VERY useful material and since then I've been using all the material to the best of my ability.

Now comparing myself in both looks and game to 2 guys in my grade this is what I've come up with.
Lets call them guy A and guy B

Now on a scale from 1-10 looks wise I'd give myself a generous 8.5. Keeping that in mind Guy A is probably a 9 or even higher and guy B is a 5 at most.

Now Guy A is the "hottie" in my grade. Pretty much if a girl knows he wants them, she'll do whatever he wants. Now this guy is not just all about looks. He has MAD game. The things he says are so dumb...but they work. He is the 2nd most confident guy I know and that works in highschool.

Now Guy B on the other hand is the class guy "*****" in my grade. But hes only a 5/10 (and thats generous). He is one of the reasons I was driven to study this site night and day. This guy pulls so many girls, he can't even keep track. EVERY weekend I see him with atleast 5 diffrent girls. So one day a few months ago I was wondering...why does this guy pull so many girls? So I hung out with him a few nights. Besides the fact that he just doesn't care what anyone thinks, he IS the most confident guy I know.

So I've come to the conclusion that no matter what you look like no matter what you wear, say, or act like....as long as you have the most confidence you can, you will pull girls.

From the time I've been on this website I've tried MANY techniques....the ignoring the girl doesn't work unless they are super hot and KNOW it...that is key. If a girl is hot but she doesn't think she's hot, then ignoring her will just tell her that your not interested, where as if shes hot and she knows it, she'll think to herself wtf EVERY guy wants me why isn't this guy calling me 24/7?

Playing hard to get works well in certain situations too. If a girl is REALLY into you then you should take advantage of that while you can. However if a girl isn't that into you, playing hard to get works well. For example....i just broke up with my first girlfriend in all of my life. Now I met her at my friend's party. I DJed a girl and invited her and her friends to this party. Now the girl I DJed had a BF so she wasn't available. So I just went into the nigth with an open mind. Immediately after I walked in, this girl (my ex) greets me (I never talked to her IN MY LIFE) and just pretty much followed me for a good 30 minutes. Then she gave up for a while. We talked throuout the night and at the end of the ngiht she asked me to go upstairs to get her stuff with her. So I said yes...we ended up in a room with her and i just talking...I didn't make ONE move. 2 days later I get a text from her friend sayign taht shes so interested in me because I played hard to get and it drove her insane.

****y and Funny works wonders in HS. But you can only use it on girls with a sense of humor and you MUST be funny. This is the one technique taht GUY B uses VERY well. I need practice in this technique.

Overall, I know this has been repeated MANY times however I got bored so I thoght I'd put in a little of my 2 sense in. I think if you have plenty of confidence and utalize the above techniques (especially C+F) well and in the right situations, then you'll be pulling girls in no time. Girls outside of highschool are A LOT smarter and need a lot more to be able to get them. Thats where the more advanced techniques come in. In highschool aslong as you look your best and exume confidence you should be good to go!..ok i'm done boys GL

-toddc out
 

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toddC said:
Okay boys, I don't know whether this is just from my highschool and past experienced but....getting girls in highschool is COMPLETELY diffrent than getting them in college or in general.
Ummm...wrong. Whats the difference between an 18 year old in hs and an 18 yr old in college? Nothing. I see what youre trying to say...but thats when you start looking at each extreme of the spectrum...i.e. hs freshman and college srs.

toddC said:
Girls outside of highschool are A LOT smarter and need a lot more to be able to get them. Thats where the more advanced techniques come in.

-toddc out
No, theyre NOT a lot smater. You really dont need "advanced techniques" for girls out of hs...because well....THEYRE STILL GIRLS! Yep i said it, no matter how old a girl gets shes still just that...a girl.

Attraction's not a choice...that should be known to yall. If shes attracted to you then youre half way home. Confidence will get you through the door. Have the ball to make a move when its that time and youll be fine. Theres really no need for these"advanced techniques" which you speak of. Some of the other stuff you said is kinda obvious....but good for you.:rockon:
 

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Well i read a nice wrap of the basics. I liked how u gave the real world example of the ugly guy rounding up the girls. Very true, without confidence it becomes difficult to reach ur goals. You need to believe that u can handle any situation given to u and that comes through pure practice and repetition until the fear is beat out of u. If you cant rely on urself who can u rely on?
 
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