Smiling
Very often smiling overlooked by DJs. Many people don't realize it but when you smile you become friendlier, happier, and 10x more confident. It puts you in a good mood which makes people want to talk to you more. When you smile your body actually makes a chemical that relaxes you.
A Real DJ Smiles
Many people think that it is wrong for a man to smile. That is completly untrue. If any think that it makes a man look weak, too nice, or just plain cheesy then you are wrong. If anything it makes them look like more manly and strong. It also shows more confidence. It takes a lot of confidence to smile most of the time, because you think that you're gonna look stupid or weak, but in all reality you look better. It also puts you mind in a very relaxed state. which makes you able to think better.
Smiling While DJing
What to you do to get that hot girl sitting in the corner to keep eye contact with you? You smile. Chances are if you don't smile then she is going to think you are some kind of weird stalker/rapist/serial killer kinda guy. But if you smile that breaks the ice and lets her know that you're friendly and not trying to kill her.
It may feel unnatural to smile at first but after you do it for a while it will become habit. Instead of having to force yourself to smile when a hot chick is looking at you, you do it automatically. I challenge all of you out there to smile more. It will make you happier and more desirable.
Hope i could be of any help to you out there. If you have any comments or suggestions please feel free to leave them
Tips On Learnin To Smile
I know, that wasn't a question to me, but I'll try to answer it. Firstly, get a mirron and look in it.
Firstly, try to look normaly. Quite serious, aren't you? By normally, I think of not smiling, nor being angry. Just a normal way you stare at the monitor.
Now, wink with one of your eyes. Your face will now be a little happier. That's a normal smile. Remember, this isn't a big smile. It's almost unnoticible.
Now, LAUGH! And now stop laughing... But don't be serious after that, look at your smile. It's a little bigger then the first one, and that's the one that works for me. That's what I call, a DJ Smile.
Now, some things about bad smiles. Don't show your teeth, or show them only a little. If you show them more, you're trying to say "Hey look, I'm so handsome and every chick will go for me!". That's not, what we want them to think. Another example of a bad smile, is a BIG smile. It's the smile, when your eyes are a little "smaller" then usual. Your lips are really width. I don't even call this a smile...
And remember, that in a good smile not only lips are important. Look at your eyes and try not to make them small when you smile.
Smiling Makes You Irresitable
Yesterday, I read a few more posts in the forums. I felt like I could take over the world the other day.
From the beggining of today, I was... Happy. I went to school smiling. In my first class we had a test. I smiled through the whole I was taking it. The same in my other classes. I was smiling almost through the whole day. Effect?
I was the main subject in the class. Every girl was smiling towards me. The girl that always ignored me, asked me a couple of questions and talked to me a few items.
I don't know how to say that... Well, a little smile is all you need. Only when I had to answer the teachers question, I had a serious look for a minute.
And lastly, one thing. I don't know how this would work... But it's a tip for the newbies. If you NEVER smile, think what will be better. If you'll smile more often, or if you;ll smile only ocasionaly. The first one is a DJ way, the second one is a more mysterious way. Maybe you'll look a little depressed, but... If a girl will talk to you, and you'll smile, she also smile somewere deep. She'll think: "Wow, he's always so serious, but now he smiled... And to me."
Have you guys ever seen James Bond smile? Of course you have, he smiles all the time. You know why? Because he is a true DJ. His smile just isn't any smile, it's what i define as a DJ smile. He has the ****y, i know i'm sexy, you want me kinda smile.
Remember A Real Don Juan Smiles
GO OUT THERE AND SMILE
May the light of the DJ be with you all.
Forgot to mention, thanks to Dario for some of the information.
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"Courage is being scared to death--and saddling up anyway."
- John Wayne
"One of the most important things in life is showing up."
Keanau Reeves, Hardball
E-mail:Boono11@aol.com
Aim:Boono11
[This message has been edited by Boono11 (edited 12-04-2002).]
Very often smiling overlooked by DJs. Many people don't realize it but when you smile you become friendlier, happier, and 10x more confident. It puts you in a good mood which makes people want to talk to you more. When you smile your body actually makes a chemical that relaxes you.
A Real DJ Smiles
Many people think that it is wrong for a man to smile. That is completly untrue. If any think that it makes a man look weak, too nice, or just plain cheesy then you are wrong. If anything it makes them look like more manly and strong. It also shows more confidence. It takes a lot of confidence to smile most of the time, because you think that you're gonna look stupid or weak, but in all reality you look better. It also puts you mind in a very relaxed state. which makes you able to think better.
Smiling While DJing
What to you do to get that hot girl sitting in the corner to keep eye contact with you? You smile. Chances are if you don't smile then she is going to think you are some kind of weird stalker/rapist/serial killer kinda guy. But if you smile that breaks the ice and lets her know that you're friendly and not trying to kill her.
It may feel unnatural to smile at first but after you do it for a while it will become habit. Instead of having to force yourself to smile when a hot chick is looking at you, you do it automatically. I challenge all of you out there to smile more. It will make you happier and more desirable.
Hope i could be of any help to you out there. If you have any comments or suggestions please feel free to leave them
Tips On Learnin To Smile
I know, that wasn't a question to me, but I'll try to answer it. Firstly, get a mirron and look in it.
Firstly, try to look normaly. Quite serious, aren't you? By normally, I think of not smiling, nor being angry. Just a normal way you stare at the monitor.
Now, wink with one of your eyes. Your face will now be a little happier. That's a normal smile. Remember, this isn't a big smile. It's almost unnoticible.
Now, LAUGH! And now stop laughing... But don't be serious after that, look at your smile. It's a little bigger then the first one, and that's the one that works for me. That's what I call, a DJ Smile.
Now, some things about bad smiles. Don't show your teeth, or show them only a little. If you show them more, you're trying to say "Hey look, I'm so handsome and every chick will go for me!". That's not, what we want them to think. Another example of a bad smile, is a BIG smile. It's the smile, when your eyes are a little "smaller" then usual. Your lips are really width. I don't even call this a smile...
And remember, that in a good smile not only lips are important. Look at your eyes and try not to make them small when you smile.
Smiling Makes You Irresitable
Yesterday, I read a few more posts in the forums. I felt like I could take over the world the other day.
From the beggining of today, I was... Happy. I went to school smiling. In my first class we had a test. I smiled through the whole I was taking it. The same in my other classes. I was smiling almost through the whole day. Effect?
I was the main subject in the class. Every girl was smiling towards me. The girl that always ignored me, asked me a couple of questions and talked to me a few items.
I don't know how to say that... Well, a little smile is all you need. Only when I had to answer the teachers question, I had a serious look for a minute.
And lastly, one thing. I don't know how this would work... But it's a tip for the newbies. If you NEVER smile, think what will be better. If you'll smile more often, or if you;ll smile only ocasionaly. The first one is a DJ way, the second one is a more mysterious way. Maybe you'll look a little depressed, but... If a girl will talk to you, and you'll smile, she also smile somewere deep. She'll think: "Wow, he's always so serious, but now he smiled... And to me."
Have you guys ever seen James Bond smile? Of course you have, he smiles all the time. You know why? Because he is a true DJ. His smile just isn't any smile, it's what i define as a DJ smile. He has the ****y, i know i'm sexy, you want me kinda smile.
Remember A Real Don Juan Smiles
GO OUT THERE AND SMILE
May the light of the DJ be with you all.
Forgot to mention, thanks to Dario for some of the information.
------------------
"Courage is being scared to death--and saddling up anyway."
- John Wayne
"One of the most important things in life is showing up."
Keanau Reeves, Hardball
E-mail:Boono11@aol.com
Aim:Boono11
[This message has been edited by Boono11 (edited 12-04-2002).]
