Befuddled
Don Juan
Don’t know where to start. bear with me, this might be a kinda long.
A month or so ago, we finally end up going to the same party. Me n a friend got ripped. the last thing i clearly remember was lying down in the grass and staring up at the stars lol. And out of nowhere this girl(girl1) n I start making out quite heavily. I was pretty much out of it... not thinking straight...could barely see straight. any who...so she manages to drag me to her room where we end up spending the night together.....didn’t go all the way, just 2nd base. I wake up and mosey on out back to my place.
Basically I end up in bed with this chick, whom I’ve never had any conversation with at all. So I decide to hang out a bit with her n it's all cool. we have a couple of movie nights....she cooked for me a little n we cuddled on the couch n stuff. But I start talking to some of my friends (guys) and they all told me she’s 'cuddly' with every guy!!! Apparently she slept with 2 different guys within the month before we hooked up, but we had met. And only a month before we hooked up she actually lost her virginity. (didn’t really bother me much at first) One of the guys (guy1) is a major player(and a good friend of mine). There’s another guy she tried to fool around with was a guy I recently met (he wasn’t interested (guy2)). That just kinda..... threw me off.
So basically that 'sign of interest'(cuddling, spending time, touching(a lot)) got thrown out the door. She comes over to my room a lot more often than before to get me to go out n wants to hang out a lot more with me. Which is all cool....she seemed like a nice girl.
So last night we end up at the local pub. and we get a whole lot of 'kino' going. I would have spent the night with her, except when I was talking to some of my other friends I glance over to her n i see her like touching(a lot) guy2).
So we all stayed till closing time, when we end up at my place. Her , the guys (including guy2) n me. At this point i was a bit drunk n didn’t want to do anything id regret. So as always the conversation ends up being about sex. And all was good until she mentioned that she just lost her virginity 2 months ago !!! (so I’m assuming to my friend(guy1) n that she’s never had an orgasm. All along she looking straight at me, in a kind of nervous way. At this point I was getting a bit peeved...so I fire up a video game and just listen at this point.
Guy2 comes in and she starts getting all touchy feely with him again... like tapping his groin, etc...right in front of me. At this point I pretty much gave up on wanting to talk to her at all, and didn’t say much to her for the rest of the 5 minutes she wast there.
Lord knows it doesn’t bother me that girls are promiscuous, but when I found out this girl probably lost her virginity on a one-night-stand, it just really disturbed me, and just 2 months ago. So she’s basically been passed down, and she’s still all flirty with all the guys, including me. When I turned on the video game and didn’t really bother paying any attention to her, I think she probably really felt bad, and I remember hearing…’the thing with guys is that they don’t know when they’re being jerks’, and I’m guessing that was directed at me. Right now I don’t think I want to be flirting with her, least of all spend the night. What do you guys reckon I aught to do ?
A month or so ago, we finally end up going to the same party. Me n a friend got ripped. the last thing i clearly remember was lying down in the grass and staring up at the stars lol. And out of nowhere this girl(girl1) n I start making out quite heavily. I was pretty much out of it... not thinking straight...could barely see straight. any who...so she manages to drag me to her room where we end up spending the night together.....didn’t go all the way, just 2nd base. I wake up and mosey on out back to my place.
Basically I end up in bed with this chick, whom I’ve never had any conversation with at all. So I decide to hang out a bit with her n it's all cool. we have a couple of movie nights....she cooked for me a little n we cuddled on the couch n stuff. But I start talking to some of my friends (guys) and they all told me she’s 'cuddly' with every guy!!! Apparently she slept with 2 different guys within the month before we hooked up, but we had met. And only a month before we hooked up she actually lost her virginity. (didn’t really bother me much at first) One of the guys (guy1) is a major player(and a good friend of mine). There’s another guy she tried to fool around with was a guy I recently met (he wasn’t interested (guy2)). That just kinda..... threw me off.
So basically that 'sign of interest'(cuddling, spending time, touching(a lot)) got thrown out the door. She comes over to my room a lot more often than before to get me to go out n wants to hang out a lot more with me. Which is all cool....she seemed like a nice girl.
So last night we end up at the local pub. and we get a whole lot of 'kino' going. I would have spent the night with her, except when I was talking to some of my other friends I glance over to her n i see her like touching(a lot) guy2).
So we all stayed till closing time, when we end up at my place. Her , the guys (including guy2) n me. At this point i was a bit drunk n didn’t want to do anything id regret. So as always the conversation ends up being about sex. And all was good until she mentioned that she just lost her virginity 2 months ago !!! (so I’m assuming to my friend(guy1) n that she’s never had an orgasm. All along she looking straight at me, in a kind of nervous way. At this point I was getting a bit peeved...so I fire up a video game and just listen at this point.
Guy2 comes in and she starts getting all touchy feely with him again... like tapping his groin, etc...right in front of me. At this point I pretty much gave up on wanting to talk to her at all, and didn’t say much to her for the rest of the 5 minutes she wast there.
Lord knows it doesn’t bother me that girls are promiscuous, but when I found out this girl probably lost her virginity on a one-night-stand, it just really disturbed me, and just 2 months ago. So she’s basically been passed down, and she’s still all flirty with all the guys, including me. When I turned on the video game and didn’t really bother paying any attention to her, I think she probably really felt bad, and I remember hearing…’the thing with guys is that they don’t know when they’re being jerks’, and I’m guessing that was directed at me. Right now I don’t think I want to be flirting with her, least of all spend the night. What do you guys reckon I aught to do ?
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She's fast becoming a wh0re. Next her and don't get involved.