A rare opportunity, i dont know what to do?

[Spade]

Hey guys ill get straight to it.

This is a rare opportunity and i dont wnat to mess it up.

Im in europe and im staying at a rented place where me, a girl, and her father are staying at.

Its their home but theyve rent me a room for two months cause im taking a course here.

Dont hate but im 19 and a virgin, however im ripped and decent looking. Alot of my friends lost it to hookers but i just cant do that.

Heres the situation, the father is going to leave in 2 days so ill be alone with the chick. Ive got a week till her mother comes n stays with us lol.

Now, im not a bad flirt im actually decent but i have no idea how to sleep with this chick.

Shes 23 speaks a bit of english and shes from slovakia... hot as shyt, a full 8 and she actually seems a little insecure.

I get to see her from 6pm on when i get back from work and i capture her interest when i flirt with her but i hve no idea how to start the conversation about sex and guide it to the bedroom.

Btw how do i ask her if shes got a bf? n if she does how do i make it so she hooks me up with her friends or somthing.

I really feel like i can lose it here, if u think u can help me ill appreciate it.

 

[PDubb75]

First thing I want to say is: don't ask if she has a boyfriend. And, unless it goes against your morals (and you believe she's telling the truth), don't just give up if she tells you she has a boyfriend.

Keep flirting with her, and keep escalating. Make sure to use kino, and be confident in yourself. Try to gauge her interest based on her responses to your actions, rather than words. For example: when you touch her arm, does she let you, or pull away? When you sit close enough to her your arms graze each other, does she stay there, or move over as if you invaded her space?

You said you don't know how to guide the conversation towards sex. Let your actions do the taking. Once she starts being more receptive it may be easier for you to sneak in some innuendos. Just be aware of your surroundings (her comments, things on TV, etc) to find something to relate to in a sexual conversation.

 

[cordoncordon]

First thing I want to say is: don't ask if she has a boyfriend. And, unless it goes against your morals (and you believe she's telling the truth), don't just give up if she tells you she has a boyfriend.

Keep flirting with her, and keep escalating. Make sure to use kino, and be confident in yourself. Try to gauge her interest based on her responses to your actions, rather than words. For example: when you touch her arm, does she let you, or pull away? When you sit close enough to her your arms graze each other, does she stay there, or move over as if you invaded her space?

You said you don't know how to guide the conversation towards sex. Let your actions do the taking. Once she starts being more receptive it may be easier for you to sneak in some innuendos. Just be aware of your surroundings (her comments, things on TV, etc) to find something to relate to in a sexual conversation.

While it sounds like a dream come true, I would say trying to sleep with her would be a very bad idea. I can only imagine what the dad would do to you if he ever found out. Lets just say I hope you have a backup plan on where to stay haha.

 

[PDubb75]

While it sounds like a dream come true, I would say trying to sleep with her would be a very bad idea. I can only imagine what the dad would do to you if he ever found out. Lets just say I hope you have a backup plan on where to stay haha.

Haha, very good point. I focused on the fact this was a short-term living situation and the father was leaving. I didn't consider the fact he could be back!

Obviously you know the situation better than us. If you think this is something that could get back to him and he would react negatively (very probable), you may want to rethink it. Especially if she's not interest, you make a move and she rejects you. She may go straight to her father telling him what you did and that she doesn't want to be living with you alone for a week. Ugh, this is sounding worse the more I think about it haha. Think this through, man...

 

[Spade]

You said you don't know how to guide the conversation towards sex. Let your actions do the taking. Once she starts being more receptive it may be easier for you to sneak in some innuendos. Just be aware of your surroundings (her comments, things on TV, etc) to find something to relate to in a sexual conversation.

can u be more specific on what u mean by innuendos