A quick tip on body language

[Krassus]

This idea flashed into my mind today and i quickly realized that it's probably the simplest, easiest and most useful tip on body language i've ever heard. Here it is:

When in public, behave as if you're at home

See, i told you it was simple! And it's just as easy to apply. You have to become conscious of your body language. Next time you're walking through a mall, simply pretend it's your living room and watch your bodylanguage change instantly in more ways i can describe!

To others, you'll appear more relaxed, comfortable and at ease than you were before. You'll also feel as if you're "one" with the environment, as if it's part of you as opposed to being "out there." The key is to keep doing this until it becomes habit and you no longer have to watch your body language.

 

[Alex_L]

Sounds cool, might try it sometime.. Although I honestly don't notice my body language at home so I wouldn't know how too fake it out of home so I'd have too take a look at myself more at home and see how I am, also I wouldn't recommend some of the bad postures you might do at home, cause I tend too have a better posture when i'm out too look better ...

I think the whole point really if not on your body language.... but too...

Imagine yourself being as relaxed / comfortable as you would be at home (or any familiar surroundings) talking too friends and family.... when you are out in a unfamilar place talking too people you don't know so well or complete strangers.

 

[biker_gixxer]

Good post Krassus.

 

[VictorK]

I like it. Just dont put your left hand in your pants a la AL bundy.

 

[skinnydart]

Good post.

I've tried to do this many times... it's a lot harder than it sounds though since the more concience I am about it, the more stiff I end up looking.

 

[CapiCrimini]

you guys sill care huh?

 

[Seizing The Day]

So, the next time I take my wife to the mall, I should just wear my underwear, scratch my nuts and fart loud?

I'll give it a try!

 

[Aresx]

just grab a book, go in the bathroom and shyt n' read, then go outside and work on the car...

after that, go to mattress giant and go to sleep

then to the electronics dept. and watch t.v.

food court

t.v. again

car again

bathroom again

sleep again

there you have it, a man's guide to the mall

 

[The Private Player]

i think it would be better to just assume you own the place. and as someone who owns a mall, you would be mature and professional yet very confident looking as if you can throw anyone out if you so please.

although adding to what capicrimini stated, it should already be natural. you do that because a don juan owns the place and as a byproduct you get more girls. simply because you look more confident. you don't do it Because of the girls.

 

[Ice Cold]

And why did I feel why about scratching my balls before ?

 

[gav]

bump

i think body language is so important in getting you into the right mindset. everyone should try this