"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright, so my teacher runs this sh*t called DECA and they're doing a fashion show with stuff for the prom and she asked me to do it. But I refused for the moment but I'm thinking about asking her if I could do it. Would you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Alright, so my teacher runs this sh*t called DECA and they're doing a fashion show with stuff for the prom and she asked me to do it. But I refused for the moment but I'm thinking about asking her if I could do it. Would you?
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If I had an interest in it, yes. But that's if I had an interest in it.
 
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do it... all the hot girls do the fashion show and ull prolly be back stage with them while they get changed
 
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why not? u dont have anything better to do.

..... i mean, UNLESS u dont have anything better to do, hehe.... heh.....

jk
 
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im gonna try that as an opener
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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