A quick one: chick's friend asking me for a date

[smooth_as_silk]

I pulled an HB9 on saturday (we kissed). She was with her married friend. Her friend asked for my number while we were having a conversation about her family life and I told her that HB9 would give it to her.
Apparently HB9 gave her my number and the friend has been messaging me like mad and is even asking me now to hang out.
3 possibilities:

1. ignore the friend
2. tell the friend I'm not available
3. ask hb9 to calm the friend down

 

[scrouds]

How hot is girl #2?

 

[sodbuster]

MARRIED? Either she needs extra attention...without the chance of getting any,or she's looking to cheat on her husband before she decides to divorce him. THAT would make her a woman I would not be interested in. Any chance this is a test by the hb 9? Personally, I'd stick with the single one.

 

[scrouds]

bag them both, don't limit yourself.

 

[backbreaker]

first serve first c um

 

[smooth_as_silk]

How hot is girl #2?

unshaggable to my standards

 

[smooth_as_silk]

Any chance this is a test by the hb 9?

I thought of this, which is why I hesitated on how to carry on the game. I decided anyways to ignore yesterday because:

1. If I tell the married friend I am not available, she will let HB9 know about it and this will automatically empower HB9.
2. If I tell HB9 to talk to her friend, it may be interpreted as being rude to the married friend and/or giving priority to HB9.

I will now send a friendly message to the married friend. This is not a straightforward situation because the married friend should not be antagonized in the process.

 

[Slickster]

Next time the three of you are together give girl #1 a big kiss right in front of girl #2.

 

[scrouds]

unshaggable to my standards

Ahhh, then option 4: friendzone blow off. "Yeah, that would be cool, we could get some friends together and hang out or something." Then don't make solid plans, "text me", "I'll get back to you" or flake if needed.

The way i figure there are 3 types of girls
1) bangable
2) non bangable "friends"
3) btches / cckblocks.

If she's not 1, she's 2. Treat her as such. Ignoring is rude. The agree and blow off is much more subtle and effective. Think: You'd like to, but you're so busy.

You will wind up "hanging out" with your new friend only with girl #1 if at all. Make moves and isolate your intended target. Be aware that "friend" is going to be a cokblock one way or another, and the hot chicks wants you to be able to bust through that with class and dignity, proving your true worth in society.

 

[Duffdog]

It is possible that the only reason that the 9 was out was to help her ugly friend get a cute guy, and the 9 is truly not available to you.

Go for the hot girl only, ignore the ugly one. Ugly girls are used to being ignored and pushed to the side by attractive guys.