"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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a quick one before going out.

THIAGO BRAZIL II

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I think that for a DJ, charming, elegance, voice tone, is way more important than looks. (self-confidence is essencial)

what do you think is more important?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Being a DJ is more important than... being an AFC.
 

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Lets put it this way, Any guy in the world can get a HB 9.5

However if the guy is ugly as hell he is going to have impecable game and probabaly approach 100 of the HB 9.5 girls to get one that will go out with him.

However if the guy is a 8 then is game just has to be good or great and he may only have to approach five HB 9.5 to get a yes.

If the guy is a 9.5 himself then its not really that hard at all in fact he can get any girl he wants with little to no effort.

So basically looks are that main thing, the important thing is that by being a DJ no matter how you look your success is going to be 10-fold over an AFC with the same looks. I mean I would consider myself a 7, with very good DJ skills and my friend who is like a 9 does as good as me sometiems being an idiot who doesn't know anything. However he should be pulling twice the chicks I am pulling becuase of his looks but he can't cuase he is an AFC.
 

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Looks do matter the most cuz every other goodlooking guy i know sooner or later gets the hottest *****es around.

I know very few attractive men(no homo) --even average,decent men,that don't have some gorgeous women stalking them without doing much.

I am firm beliver that most women can be cracked with just a lil' confidence and game.But I can't deny that i've been pushed aside for total jackasses just cuz they had better looks than me or more money.


So yeah 8 times out of ten looks matters the most.Unless the guy in question is a mute who's completley afraid of women(and even then,man I tell you).

At least I look ok...:whistle: so i'm good...lol.
 

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THIAGO BRAZIL II said:
I think that for a DJ, charming, elegance, voice tone, is way more important than looks. (self-confidence is essencial)

what do you think is more important?
To me honestly that's a myth both women and men have perpetrated.Women to not make themselves seem like hoes.And men for self-assurance.

It's not true.

Even guys that are complete pricks hated by other men to the point of having no male freinds...will still walk away with the best and the most broads if he actually approaches them.

Go to a club or better yet a houseparty tonight and peep out who women are checking for the most.I guarentee you it's gonna be the betterlooking males,despite of everything,man.It's just human nature.

The problem is there's more pretty boy types in this day and age that are 'freinds' with women than actually being players.So it seems like the myth is real.

But for those of us in the feild we all know that's total bs.Some like to deny the fact but we all know it's oscar meyer.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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