"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A Quick Notice - We are Unfair

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm Charming

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wutangfinancial said:
A good 5% of dudes are involuntarily celibate, usually because of genetic factors, such as being abnormally short.

So your theory is crap.
*World's tiniest violin* :p

The average American male is only 1.3 inches taller than yourself, I cant get my head around what the problem is.

In terms of the actual topic itself, I cant see how self improvement is such a crime, sure, people might catch on eventually and the rules may change. Other people notice when so many people are gaining an advantage:- the casino's had cardcounting banned purely to stop smart people increasing the odds of themselves winning but for now, this is a fair game and If I'm increasing my odds of winning what I want, I feel no need to complain. :up:
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Wutang, if I can get laid with an 8/10 Asian girl at 5'6, you can get laid easy at 5'8.
Not with his attitude he can't.

@Wutang: Ask any girl whether she'd rather do an ugly dude with a beer belly who's 6'3 or an athletic guy who's 5'6. You get my point?? There's other ways to be attractive besides height.
 

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DonGorgon said:
The only thing that makes your looks not matter to very pretty young girls is plenty of money...
If that's true, then every pretty young girl in England must think I'm a billionnaire ;).

Edit: Seriously, money might matter, but a girl is a girl, and it doesn't take money or good looks to attract one...though both do help. Moreover, money doesn't actually create attraction, it just creates greed.
 
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