Excuse me for always speaking in anecdotes, but last night for example I went out and hit the club.
There was a nice hot blond girl dancing with a group of friends. I'm sure some of you might refer to this one as a HB9. She and her friends kept bumping into me while dancing, when she suddenly approached me and offered me a sip of her beer. I just responded: no thx, I have. She was cool.
Then she stuck around and tried to order a drink, standing right next to me and brushing her boob against my arm. I looked over my shoulder and studied her face, then we made some eye-contact. I thought to myself: "I know that if I don't approach her now, my friends that taught me would wonder: "why didn't you talk to her? Are you stupid or weak or what?", so I stuck out my hand, grabbed her hand, and she squeezed into it a little bit. I squeezed back to make sure she could feel the calluses, sort of mirroring her. Then I said: "hi".
Problem was: my voice tonality was off. The pitch was way too high. She immediately let go of my hand, whispered something to her friend, and walked off.
I personally realised immediately that my voice tonality was off, but I still wondered why she let go of my hand so quickly, kind of feeling like she had controlled the situation, letting go of my hand first, quite confused.
I wondered whether it was the calluses on my hands, or what the fvck it was that turned her off, but now I realise it was actually my voice tonality.
I'm not always a man of many words. Sometimes I feel like forcing myself to talk is already accepting another person's frame, as saying anything is usually out of a response to something. This kind of exertion already has to be from your own frame of mind.
I am quite an expressive person to be honest, and can speak with a wide range in tonality. I can be quite communicative. I can also act like some type of die-hard gangster sometimes, where friends from years ago see a weird transformation in me when I'm at certain social venues with strangers around. I can get steely-eyed and militant
So the worst thing anyone can do is to go from a strong central mental frame of being grounded, quiet, satisfied, tranquil and non-needy, to suddenly being expressive and communicative.
Sometimes, like most people, I wonder what it is I want in life.
I realise that I love pvssy like every other guy, I like the chase and the thrill. Sometimes though, I might be better off staying laid-back and not chasing pvssy just for the hell of it.
If I really am an alpha-male, there would be no need for me to chase pvssy would there?
The pvssy would be falling into my lap wouldn't it?
I'm not saying that I am some kind of superman to whom women will throw themselves, I'm just saying that any man that has some type of value to women - those women will approach him: I'm sure of it. There really is no debate, to be honest. We all know women are the real selectors at first instance. They have the legs which need to be opened. They make the first move, by hinting towards a man that she wants to be approached.
All a high value man really has to do, is be at the right time at the right place. Then the woman will evaluate him. If he qualifies, then she will want him.
If she wants him, she will offer herself to him. Then it is the man's job to take the woman.
There was a nice hot blond girl dancing with a group of friends. I'm sure some of you might refer to this one as a HB9. She and her friends kept bumping into me while dancing, when she suddenly approached me and offered me a sip of her beer. I just responded: no thx, I have. She was cool.
Then she stuck around and tried to order a drink, standing right next to me and brushing her boob against my arm. I looked over my shoulder and studied her face, then we made some eye-contact. I thought to myself: "I know that if I don't approach her now, my friends that taught me would wonder: "why didn't you talk to her? Are you stupid or weak or what?", so I stuck out my hand, grabbed her hand, and she squeezed into it a little bit. I squeezed back to make sure she could feel the calluses, sort of mirroring her. Then I said: "hi".
Problem was: my voice tonality was off. The pitch was way too high. She immediately let go of my hand, whispered something to her friend, and walked off.
I personally realised immediately that my voice tonality was off, but I still wondered why she let go of my hand so quickly, kind of feeling like she had controlled the situation, letting go of my hand first, quite confused.
I wondered whether it was the calluses on my hands, or what the fvck it was that turned her off, but now I realise it was actually my voice tonality.
I'm not always a man of many words. Sometimes I feel like forcing myself to talk is already accepting another person's frame, as saying anything is usually out of a response to something. This kind of exertion already has to be from your own frame of mind.
I am quite an expressive person to be honest, and can speak with a wide range in tonality. I can be quite communicative. I can also act like some type of die-hard gangster sometimes, where friends from years ago see a weird transformation in me when I'm at certain social venues with strangers around. I can get steely-eyed and militant
So the worst thing anyone can do is to go from a strong central mental frame of being grounded, quiet, satisfied, tranquil and non-needy, to suddenly being expressive and communicative.
Sometimes, like most people, I wonder what it is I want in life.
I realise that I love pvssy like every other guy, I like the chase and the thrill. Sometimes though, I might be better off staying laid-back and not chasing pvssy just for the hell of it.
If I really am an alpha-male, there would be no need for me to chase pvssy would there?
The pvssy would be falling into my lap wouldn't it?
I'm not saying that I am some kind of superman to whom women will throw themselves, I'm just saying that any man that has some type of value to women - those women will approach him: I'm sure of it. There really is no debate, to be honest. We all know women are the real selectors at first instance. They have the legs which need to be opened. They make the first move, by hinting towards a man that she wants to be approached.
All a high value man really has to do, is be at the right time at the right place. Then the woman will evaluate him. If he qualifies, then she will want him.
If she wants him, she will offer herself to him. Then it is the man's job to take the woman.
