There is this girl that was sitting with me and my roommate the other day, and she was talking to my roommate and asked if we room together.
I said yes, and she said she was surprised because I seem like I would be a hard person to room with ...
I asked my roommate if this was true, and he said that it is only a matter of appearances. I agreed with him and said that I am a really good guy once a person gets to know me, and I sometimes get misjudged on first appearances.
Then I asked her what my first impression was on her, and she said that I just stared at her without blinking at the lunchtable, and she thought it was sort of creepy.
I asked her if I said anything to her.
She said that she asked me my name and I wouldn't tell her.
After this she then stopped, said bye to me using my name.
This was yesterday, today she intentionally chose to sit next to me during lunch with my roommate while we were talking. I said hi to her, and she waved back while eating. My roommate asked her how she was and she said that she was feeling sick because she caught a cold or something, then went back to eating.
My roommate then left, and I thought to tell her something.
I remember once that she said that people who have lots of money and show it off make her feel inferior, so I told her that I remembered her saying that and I thought that it was really brave that she said that. She got a smile on her face and said thank you. I then said that I also noticed that appears to be someone with bad self-esteeme, and it takes alot to say something like that.
Then I aksed her if she had a good childhood, she asked me why, and I told her that I am curious and she doesn't have to tell me if she doesn't want to. She said she had a bad childhood, and that she didn't really want to talk about it.
Well, she said a few neutral things to me after that, like for example we talked about the school assembly and about yearbooks.
Eventually it got to the point to where everyone was just leaving the table, she left the table without saying anything to me.
Now, the thing is that this girl has low self-esteeme problems, and she will occasionally act a little arrogant as a defense mechanism to keep from getting close to people [she actually [feels inferior]. I knew one guy who had alot of nice tendencies who was actually pretty quick on his feet when it came to ****y and funny things to say. She would always hug him, and he actually tried to get me to break her away from him once when she asked some question to him about sex.
So, my question is what do you guys think is up with this girl? She sounds like trouble to me, but I found it really odd that she would come sit next to me in a way that seemed really intentional after she told me the way she first perceived me.
Maybe she feels interested in getting to know me, or was atleast ... what do you guys think?
I said yes, and she said she was surprised because I seem like I would be a hard person to room with ...
I asked my roommate if this was true, and he said that it is only a matter of appearances. I agreed with him and said that I am a really good guy once a person gets to know me, and I sometimes get misjudged on first appearances.
Then I asked her what my first impression was on her, and she said that I just stared at her without blinking at the lunchtable, and she thought it was sort of creepy.
I asked her if I said anything to her.
She said that she asked me my name and I wouldn't tell her.
After this she then stopped, said bye to me using my name.
This was yesterday, today she intentionally chose to sit next to me during lunch with my roommate while we were talking. I said hi to her, and she waved back while eating. My roommate asked her how she was and she said that she was feeling sick because she caught a cold or something, then went back to eating.
My roommate then left, and I thought to tell her something.
I remember once that she said that people who have lots of money and show it off make her feel inferior, so I told her that I remembered her saying that and I thought that it was really brave that she said that. She got a smile on her face and said thank you. I then said that I also noticed that appears to be someone with bad self-esteeme, and it takes alot to say something like that.
Then I aksed her if she had a good childhood, she asked me why, and I told her that I am curious and she doesn't have to tell me if she doesn't want to. She said she had a bad childhood, and that she didn't really want to talk about it.
Well, she said a few neutral things to me after that, like for example we talked about the school assembly and about yearbooks.
Eventually it got to the point to where everyone was just leaving the table, she left the table without saying anything to me.
Now, the thing is that this girl has low self-esteeme problems, and she will occasionally act a little arrogant as a defense mechanism to keep from getting close to people [she actually [feels inferior]. I knew one guy who had alot of nice tendencies who was actually pretty quick on his feet when it came to ****y and funny things to say. She would always hug him, and he actually tried to get me to break her away from him once when she asked some question to him about sex.
So, my question is what do you guys think is up with this girl? She sounds like trouble to me, but I found it really odd that she would come sit next to me in a way that seemed really intentional after she told me the way she first perceived me.
Maybe she feels interested in getting to know me, or was atleast ... what do you guys think?
