"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A Question to the older DJ's ( 30s and up)

Roly

Roly

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If you were to go back in time again and relive your 20's again, what would you change? This question cross my mind because I've been seeing a couple of people go through some " mid life crises". You know like divorcing your wife of 20 years, or some bald dude putting on a tupae and suddenly driving sports cars. I have nothing against it, people should do what makes them happy, but I do think it's a little odd. Just all these " mid life crises" I've been seeing a lot lately inspired me to really enjoy this decade of my life i.e. do a lot of wild and crazy stuff, travel, bang tons of chicks, party every week so that way it's all out of my system when I reach my 30's. Older Dj's give me your wise lectures please.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Paved paths aren't necessarily meant to be followed. Don't be afraid to set your own destination, pick your own direction, choose your own mode of travel and create your own gateways.
 
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Why are you worried about getting older?

If you are always pushing yourself to become a better person you should be in the prime of your life when you hit your 30's.

Don't buy the B.S. everyone tries to feed you. The midlife crisis thing is only applicable to people who are trying to radically change their situation to make up for some kind of perceived shortfall.

I'm 35 and drive a sports car and wear a hairpiece. Does that mean I'm having a midlife crisis? People who know me know better.

I look like I'm in my late 20's and I'm pretty much the same person (single, love to go out and have a good time) as I was ten years ago. Hell, I'm probably BETTER now than I was then cause I was in a couple of LTR's that weren't doing anything to help keep me young.

You shouldn't ever have to go through a crisis because that basically means you have or feel as if you have squandered your earlier years. If you hit your peak at 25 and it's all downhill from there....well.....I feel sorry for you.
 
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