The
golden rule is that you have to
date downwards in social circles!!
If you want to bang the hottest girl in the social circle and you start at the bottom, you're
done or even with the average girl because no hot girl wants to have the seconds of her inferior friend. It's social suicide. I hang around girls a lot and you'll be surprised how often they actually say things like "I like made her" or "before me no one liked her" :crackup: I thought this was just Hollywood bullcrap but it's not, it's how they think.
So even if there's a cute girl trying to get with you but you want her hotter friend, you are better off not f*cking the cute one. The reason why is because the cute one will do the work for you, she'll tell the hotter one that she thinks you're cute or whatever and this will set something off in the girls mind. So if you're flirting with her but haven't hooked up with her friend she will see you as a guy with options. The hotter girl is much more likely to be into you now and girls are bïtchy, she will hook up with you if her friend cannot actually lay claim to you just to prove she's better.
In my life I have f*cked my way through 2 pretty solid friendship groups. I class that as a group of 5-6 girls who are close and banging over half of them. I wasn't really friends with any of these girls but they were talking about me, I was part of "never have I ever" and another girl I'm seeing at the moment actually told me she was at a party and overheard a conversation about me.
The first one was with a girl I was seeing pretty casually and I ended up getting in a FWB situation with one of her best friends(by accident) and it actually didn't cause too much of a fuss even though the first girl really liked me and wanted to be my girlfriend but I'm not the kind of guy who you'd want to actually have as your boyfriend and she knew that so she couldn't really argue. I had the right reputation for what I wanted to do. So I start sleeping with her friend and it's fine. Then one day another one of their friends came round my house and we ended up screwing. This one actually caused tension within their friendship group and this girl ended up getting called a few nasty things and I got away with it because it was the kind of guy they all saw me as. You have to judge how each group of girls act,
they are different. With some girls, sleeping with a guy they've already slept with is okay but in others it's the worst thing you can do. This is why you need to be socially savvy and play the situation by ear.
The other group is one I've written about in my journal but I got laid a few times this year at university because of a girl I slept with. She was in a social circle and told her friends that I was amazing in bed, so I had these girls coming up to me who I didn't even know at the time asking me about these rumours. All I had to do was act coy about it and they all wanted to know what the deal was and individually they all got to find out what the deal was
As for girls rejecting you based on other goings on in social circles, I'm still trying to formulate how this works. I'll take you back a few months, I have a female friend who I go out with and she brings her friends along and it's always a good time for me. Anyway, I start hooking up with one of her mates even though I sort of fancied the other one more. You live you learn. So later on in the night, I go up to the girl I like more and start flirting with her, bare in mind she'd just seen me make out with her friend and spend about 20 minutes chatting about 5 metres away so subtly was not the right play here. I was talking to her, we were flirting, she'd touch me but she was hesitant to go and further because I'd just got with her friend...and actually about 6 months before that I got a pretty bad blowout :kick: from another friend in this social circle, I'm not sure if she actually told her friends though because it's never been brought up. But even if it had either they had forgotten or just didn't care because the other girl was really hot anyway and actually a great example of what my type is.
I love social circle game, it's great if you mix with the right people and have the right vibe you can make waves. You want to be a sexual guy, you want that reputation, girls don't just hook up with nice guys in their social circle without the pretext of a relationship. I can understand why a lot of guys in the community hate it; it requires social skills, having female friends and you can potentially burn a whole social group. The thing I'm going to do when I leave university is get home and get a few good solid social circles going because it's like automated pûssy.
So to actually answer your question, in a social circle, a girl will categorise you and it depends on the social circle and what vibe you give off as to what you get from the situation. You can make moves on multiple girls if you have the "i don't give a crap" vibe, if you don't you will get shamed and tossed aside. They will bring it up with you but just talk about how you appreciate them both as individuals and respect that they can make their own decisions, that should shut them up. But there are no real shortcuts with social circle stuff, you have to be able to read situations and act accordingly and that will take practice.
