A question I have for you guys at SoSuave

[2-D]

Hey Don Juans p) I have a question for you all:

I know these two girls that like me (well one definitely does, the other just shows signals) but they have been practically ignoring me lately since they got boyfriends. What does this say about where I stand with them?

I mean, a week ago, I used to talk to one of the girls all the time, and she outright said she'd shag me any time I ever want, and the other one just used to compliment me a lot and kept looking at me.

Now, both have boyfriends, and the girl I constantly spoke to practically ignores me, and the other shows practically no interest, I mean this happens when their boyfriends are with them, but I have nothing else to go by because they are CONSTANTLY with them.

Have both of them totally lost interest because I was just their bit on the side, or are they trying to stay away from me to be loyal to their bfs?

Thanks Juans!

 

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brb reading these 2 chicks minds :kick:

Who gives a sh!t, go meet 10 other girls you peanut.

 

[jnice48146]

Wouldn't the fact that these chicks HAVE BOYFRIENDS indicate low interest towards YOU? I'm no expert, but that's what I would get from that.

 

[2-D]

Meeting 10 other women does not stop me from wanting to screw these two. Hell, I probably WILL meet 10 other women but that doesn't change my question.

I just wanna know whether they are avoiding me now due to lost interest, or for fear of their bfs not liking them focusing on me/similar.

Wouldn't the fact that these chicks HAVE BOYFRIENDS indicate low interest towards YOU? I'm no expert, but that's what I would get from that.

Fair comment, I mean I'd probably have thought the same had I not got definite interest beforehand, I do know that at least one really did fancy me, but it's possible the other one was just being polite.

 

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Meeting 10 other women does not stop me from wanting to screw these two.

I beg to differ , armchair theory is for the weak.

 

[2-D]

I beg to differ , armchair theory is for the weak.

Haha well it might very well be, you can't assume I'm archair theorying it though I have done similar before where I really fancy a girl, go out, meet some more hotties then I care less about the first one. BUT, I'll still think "wow I wanna shag that," that never changes. (PS I heard there's a 10 post rule on this forum? If so I might be out of quota now lol)

 

[jeffthechef]

brb reading these 2 chicks minds :kick:

Who gives a sh!t, go meet 10 other girls you peanut.

hah. I think the boob guy has a point.
They got bf's, which means you stand for away from fcking them. Unless of course, they're slutty. Then, you stand wherever you stood before.

Whatever the case, you've invested way too much effort, time, and thinking into these two girls. Lay them or don't. I doubt these two girls, or any girl for that matter, is worth this much effort, unless she's your wife. You have two-itis buddy.

There are other girls to have fun with. These two aren't going anywhere anyways, and if they do, who cares.

 

[slaog]

Its not that their opinion of you has changed. Like others said, they have boyfriends now and the boyfriends are getting their attention. They're not really thinking about you.