"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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a question for the ladies...

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i dont mean to be sexest or arragant but women are a pain some times. Why is it men bust their ***** trying to please women but they never take notice of it?

I ask this question because i recently split up with someone and all i did was aim to please them. She finished with me on the note that i was too nice and she didnt deserve me, oh, and the old lie, we can still be friends, now we barly talk.

The other thing is ladies, why dont you show attration more strongly to somone? Most women can barley drop a hint and its the men who have to do all the work...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey bud,
i suggest that you read the bible, because then you will find out about what you did wrong, how to prevent this kind of thing from happening.
theres alot of good reading in there., that will answer all of your questions about women.

you will learn how to attract and keep a women...

unlike me.. im considerd virmin by the ladies...
 

DeathDealer

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Well now you know that you should go after women that show attraction to you, setup dates, and help out 50% of the relationship time.

If all the girl is doing is giving her time, only calls you to talk to you .. that is not enough for a relationship. (It wasn't for me)

Just remember, relationships is 2-way, and is 50/50. There are guys out there (the giver/afc types) that believe in providing for the girl.. like if he was their pimp. He feels all proud and mighty that this girl all she does is give him sex, talk to him like a friend/companion whilst he pays for 95% of everything..food/travel costs/etc. They themselves think they're studs when they're the ones forking over all the cash, energy, and time just for the girl's ... time. I know girls that don't mind this too.. the taker types - I just avoid them and save my sanity and look for girls that do 50% of the work.
 

penkitten

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dont compare all women with one woman.
thats not even fair.
 
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