"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A question for all of you, relationship ****.

unistork

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I met a really nice girl at my friends New Years eve party and the girl knows I like her but found out she isn't into my type. She's into wiggers, pot-heads, and punks. I was wondering why do girls want to be with types of fake people? Most of her friends are like that I found out. Also, have you ever found yourself in a position like I am right now, not knowing what type of girls are meant for you. A friend told me I should look for someone who has the same goals and values as I do. Do you ever consider these type of people sorta shallow in a sense?

It’s amazing that *******s can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are *******s at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen... until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what *******s their predators really are, they pretend like the ******* is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the ******* into a nice guy, but *******s will always be *******s. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the *******. But she claims to love the *******...

Now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the ******* right away; instead she will stay with the *******. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their ******* boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support.

When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the *******. The nice guy gets the **** end of the stick while the ******* gets all the action. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the ******* is because *******s ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the *******. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The ******* finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him... even thought all she has won is an *******.

Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the *******s because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants... ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an ******* her boyfriend is, like in the movies... instead she will just go after another *******, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you.

Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys... they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect *******, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect *******. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft.

To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your ******* to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself... because he has listened to it all.
What do you think of the above?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fenderules

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its confidence buddy. always will be




the so called "wiggers" while they may be fake and *******s, they show some kind of confidence. perhaps that whole "ho" thing is why they become wiggers. Woman are lowered so these guys can treat them like **** because they dont respect them.


The problem with the nice guy is he respects the girl and does not have enough confidence in himself to not worry about offending her. He thinks offending her will be bad and thus is just as fake as the others cause he has none of his own opinious (a jelly back)

What a girl would trurly go for is:

a guy who is confident in himself
a guy who respects woman
a guy who is "Nice" but not DESPERATE and AFC
a guy who can play around and have FUN!
a guy who WONT take **** (*******s dont takes ****) and puts the girl in her place when she plays stupid games
a guy who is not afraid to take the lead



all these traits are very good. the problem is take a look around....... can you find a guy with all these traits???? yeah there are a some with these (don juans of course) but they are RARE!



and that whole taming thing...... girls still wanna tame these guys because they HAVE their own life. they do not take **** and play around and of course.....have lots of other girls wanting their attention so naturally a girl wants to tame him for herself.

he is a challenge.....even more so then the *******s because he is the real deal.
 

AverageFC

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I was wondering why do girls want to be with types of fake people?
Who says their fake? Are you saying a black guy who likes listening to say classical music is fake?

Maybe being a punk or a whigger or a potsmoker is just their style. Different strokes, different folks.

I'm white and I like hiphop music. Does that make me a bad person?



Then I'll also tell you I listen to house, dance, trance, rock,metal, alternative and ska.

Don't make assumptions.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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No it doesn't in actuality, but wiggers in part of something they really aren't. A lot of the city folks hate it when another guy tries to act a certain way that they weren't in the first place. I used to be a friend with this person who went out with another one of my friends, after their relationship ended he started dressing hip hop ish and was using slang he never used before. To me that's fake that's why I said that.
 

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RE:

Wiggers...havent heard that expression in ages.

we can beat this over the head but let me explain a little something to you about those type of girls... they want to be around someone they feel comfortable with and not pressured.
Yes he's a little edgy and has a carefree attitude and thats what she's looking for because she probably already has enough pressure, uncertainty and everything else in her life and the last thing she wants is someone that makes her feel uncomfortable IE someone who has all their sh** together. Don't try and over analyze it. You cant beat those types out if you play your cards right. I used to make a killing dating girls like that and then eventually I'd get bored and dump em. And no I wasnt a wigger, jerk, pot smoking fool either. I made them feel exactly what they wanted to feel and kept it simple. Its all about the comfort zone.......................................
 
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