a question about ssauve as I read threads and stuff

[Lostinlove]

Is so suave a site for guys who get and keep girls or more of a site to talk about girls after they get dumped or rejected by them?

I've read threads before and I don't see any successful relationship stories on here and see a lot of posters with much rep but they still seem single or angry.

And the biggest thread is about no contact for guys who are getting dumped, no successful field reports or relationships and many guys with long ago join dates but are still on here. Also a lot of threads about guys asking how they can get specific types of women over and over but dont etc.

 

[jimmy18]

Do bipolar people see a doctor during a manic episode?

 

[skinnyguy]

You're in the wrong neighborhood if you want a relationship my friend. 99% of guys on this site want to pump and dump.

 

[Lostinlove]

You're in the wrong neighborhood if you want a relationship my friend. 99% of guys on this site want to pump and dump.

But it seems from reading that half can never get the pump and the other half are getting the dump per no contact thread etc. Idk

 

[zekko]

I have what I think is a successful relationship with my girlfriend, who I live with, it's going on 11 years now. She's a very cool girl, and she's been all over me lately for some reason. I had her before I came here, however, I became interested in this board for other reasons.

You're in the wrong neighborhood if you want a relationship my friend. 99% of guys on this site want to pump and dump.

That's true, and most pickup is based around short term mating strategies. A lot of guys came here wanting a relationship, however, but were told to spin plates instead. A lot of guys wanted a relationship but realized (or were told) that women today are unsuitable for relationships, and therefore think that the only option is to pump and dump.

 

[latinnova]

I think that this site has a lot to offer on building a fast rapport with a woman, which will help you get your foot in the door with a woman that perhaps you wouldn't have been able to before. Just like every aspect in life, learn and take away the info that pertains to you, and filter out the rest if your not looking to pump and dump, but it will get you in.

However, after that it really is all about chemistry between the two of you. You must screen her very hard, and let all of her demons come out, so you can see how minor or major those demons are. You will also have some too. And then don't forget to take the redpill, if you already have not done so, so that you know what to expect from a woman in the long run. And if you do find something long term, then enjoy it as much as possible while you have it, because it is a great thing. But... just remember that just like everything else in life, nothing lasts forever.

 

[Desdinova]

This board could be more relationship-focused if the women in the world were of better quality. If you want a good LTR candidate, you need to become good with women and then weed out as many bad ones as quickly as possible. Over time, you'll figure out what qualities a GOOD Woman will possess.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I think the main reason why so many guys here appear to be single or upset is because this site really preaches the importance of screening.
If you're screening hard, you'll burn through a lot of women and bytch about them here. I think it's a good thing.

 

[SoSuave666]

You'll notice a lot of guys become "lurkers" when they get in a good relationship. They won't post as often and they won't complain as much. But first you need to get your a$$ whipped in to shape by this site. Personally, when I was in my last relationship, I stopped really posting here and just read to keep the tools sharp.

Screening aside, most women just are NOT quality anymore. I don't care the reasons, nor do I pretend to be an expert on the reasons. But it's to the point now where I can go out and literally just look at a woman, cold-read her and her demeanor, and instinctively know whether she is a quality woman or not. Most often the answer is "no." It's a bit disconcerting to say the least.