"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A question about porn/women

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Watched some. Saw some smokin hot blonde with a great body take it up the butt by some fat guy wearing knee high white socks and a batman costume. WTF!!!!!

Now tell me, why would this good looking gal do this? Money? Why doesnt she go out and marry some engineer or owner of a small business? Somebody who has something to offer? I don't get it. She gets filmed with this clown who basically is treating her like a fvcking dog! This woman was simply beautiful!

We talkin cluster b, self esteem issues or what? I was just shakin my fvckin head.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zekko

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5string said:
Now tell me, why would this good looking gal do this? Money? Why doesnt she go out and marry some engineer or owner of a small business? Somebody who has something to offer? I don't get it. She gets filmed with this clown who basically is treating her like a fvcking dog! This woman was simply beautiful!
I'm just guessing here, but I think it's pretty obvious most of them do it because of the money. They probably don't have the smarts or resources to earn that kind of money any other way.

Rich men aren't as plentiful as you think, and a lot of them aren't stupid enough to marry some women who just wants them for their cash. And by earning their own money, they get to be "independent women". A lot of porn actresses are strippers anyway, so this is just a step away for them. Some see it as a way to break into the modeling business. And I'm sure some of them just do it because they're messed up in the head.

As for the guy treating her like a dog, most women want to be dominated in some way or other, especially in a fantasy setting. It's part of their natural submissive role. From there it's just a matter of degree.
 
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A friend of mine makes >$150k a year just doing online strip shows and masturbating. Wonder how much pornstars that do nasty sh!t make.
 

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I dunno zekko. I just don't understand. I mean, I saw some really gorgeous women get slapped around by these ugly guys who rail the heck out of them. You'd think they could use their looks and sexuality to get a good guy but NO, they make a movie, get railed by six guys at once, take several loads on the face and then smile for the birdie!!!!
 

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I dunno zekko. I just don't understand. I mean, I saw some really gorgeous women get slapped around by these ugly guys who rail the heck out of them. You'd think they could use their looks and sexuality to get a good guy but NO, they make a movie, get railed by six guys at once, take several loads on the face and then sile for the birdie!!!!
You know as well as I do that just because a girl is gorgeous, that doesn't make her a quality women.
And like BeginningDJ noted, I'm sure there's some serious money being thrown around.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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5string said:
I dunno zekko. I just don't understand. I mean, I saw some really gorgeous women get slapped around by these ugly guys who rail the heck out of them. You'd think they could use their looks and sexuality to get a good guy but NO, they make a movie, get railed by six guys at once, take several loads on the face and then smile for the birdie!!!!
I think sosuave overestimates the power of a woman's beauty.

Go through my facebook feed and you'll see an abundance of pretty women b*tching about getting dumped by various men.
 

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You'll eventually find most of these women looking like complete ****e in the future, and or completely "transformed" by multiple plastic surgeries into a circus freakish looking "perfect" version of what they feel inside their warped brain that they "should look like", blown all their money by snorting it up their nose or drinking themselves to hell, or in the case of several porn stars. Dead.

I don't care how good they look on the outside or how much money they make. People who do that crap are severe mental cases.
 

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Think I have to agree with Ninja. Just astounds me how these woman will allow themselves to be so degraded. They have to be severe mental cases.
 

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Think I have to agree with Ninja. Just astounds me how these woman will allow themselves to be so degraded. They have to be severe mental cases.
Dude you've had it too easy.

Not that I agree with it, but some of these girls are a step away from being homeless and being on the street, they have to do what to do to survive. Sex isn't that big of deal to them, it's just the body, the money is more important.

It's easier to get a girl you are dating to sleep with you than spend her hard earned money on you. If she sleeps with you, it was a moment of weakness. If she spends money on you, she's a sucker.

Money rules all.
 

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they are making money by selling them selves
but they dont know how to keep the money or use it in a wise way
as mentioned earlier...they will end up in the streets foreveralone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't believe it is the money alone. I think they only pay them a few hundred dollars for doing a lot of sex scenes. Unless they were a star that who's name sold a lot of videos, then I doubt they're getting much money. A woman could make more money stripping or being an escort. And like 5string said some of these are very hot. They could easily be golddiggers and not have to do porn for money.


I don't know maybe it is the money. Maybe all the effort in the world won't get you so much as a date with a girl so hot, but offer a few hundred bucks and it's on lol?
 

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Some people are just messed up. Surely we've seen people of both genders with esteem problems, poor judges of character, poor decision making, etc. These things are not exclusive to unattractive people; there are tons of physically beautiful women that are damaged goods. Who knows why a 19 year old will toss a middle aged hairy fat guy's salad in front of a camera, but it happens. All you can do is stay very far away from those women. Any woman who doesn't respect herself or her body gets no respect or sympathy from me.
 

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Staying behind a camera and being seen for women is like staying on the podium and be worshipped as winner for a man.

None of us do it for the money only,call it ego call it desire to be supported and recognized, call it whatever you want but its not about money only.

Women crave attention as much as we crave victory.
 

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There's a strong stereotype about strippers/porn actresses, I'm sure you've heard of it. Daddy issues, rape/molestation, demoralized, abused, etc.. Perhaps they just want to relive their past, except they want to be in more "control" of it this time.

I've dated a stripper before, and she broke it down pretty simply. They're in it for the money, or because they "have to do it".

-Scars
 

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I wonder about this all the time.
I mean, a lot of these porn stars are fvcking drop dead gorgeous. I've always thought it could be entirely possible to meet one of these women and want to marry her (provided you had no clue about her series of biker club anal gangbang videos).
Then on your bucks night (stag night for my US friends), someone puts on a porno and there's your gorgeous young wife being face ****ed by Rocco Siffredi and his mates.
Surely they could use their looks to better themselves and get ahead.
So I think it must definitely come down to severe mental issues.
Fvck they're so hot though. Lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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