Taking things to the next level - from interest to bedroom
OK, well I'm at the point where I feel comfortable just chatting with random girls. I'm known around my campus as very sociable, likable person, so its not uncommon for me to just strike up conversation with anyone I damn well please.
I also seem to always be running into girls Ive been "gaming". At dinner tonight at our dining hall, I was sitting surrounded by like 3 girls I was "considering". i think that, by this point, i've got their IL in me pretty high too. One's got a boyfriend but that doesn't usually matter to me when I'm just flirting. She's good practice and who knows? Maybe they'll break up soon in which case, I'm suspect #1 when she needs a rebound hookup
Anyway, the question I'm posting here is, how do I make the transition between them having high IL in me and me doing something with them?
I know the typical response is "ASK THEM OUT LOLZ!!!" but that's not really practical. I dont like taking women out and spending money on them, and I see no need for that. The problem is, I know they know that I'm at least marginally interested, and i'm sure they're interested and open to advances, but where do I take it so I can solidify things? Im looking more for a LTR than a hookup, but I'll just go with whatever the situation is feeling.
Other college students that live on-campus, what do you do here? I'd invite one of the girls in question over to watch a movie, but I have no means of viewing a movie in my room for the time being...No TV, computer's sound is broken. I do have a dorm room all to myself so if things do get hot n' heavy we can always "head on back to my room"!
Any help?
--Kel
OK, well I'm at the point where I feel comfortable just chatting with random girls. I'm known around my campus as very sociable, likable person, so its not uncommon for me to just strike up conversation with anyone I damn well please.
I also seem to always be running into girls Ive been "gaming". At dinner tonight at our dining hall, I was sitting surrounded by like 3 girls I was "considering". i think that, by this point, i've got their IL in me pretty high too. One's got a boyfriend but that doesn't usually matter to me when I'm just flirting. She's good practice and who knows? Maybe they'll break up soon in which case, I'm suspect #1 when she needs a rebound hookup
Anyway, the question I'm posting here is, how do I make the transition between them having high IL in me and me doing something with them?
I know the typical response is "ASK THEM OUT LOLZ!!!" but that's not really practical. I dont like taking women out and spending money on them, and I see no need for that. The problem is, I know they know that I'm at least marginally interested, and i'm sure they're interested and open to advances, but where do I take it so I can solidify things? Im looking more for a LTR than a hookup, but I'll just go with whatever the situation is feeling.
Other college students that live on-campus, what do you do here? I'd invite one of the girls in question over to watch a movie, but I have no means of viewing a movie in my room for the time being...No TV, computer's sound is broken. I do have a dorm room all to myself so if things do get hot n' heavy we can always "head on back to my room"!
Any help?
--Kel
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