a qeustion about being played

[simplyxxme]

ok, so in my AFC days, (dont get me wrong, im still afc, but slowly evolving) this one girl played me pretty good. She act like she all into me and when i finally like her she jus makes some bs excuse. Anyways, i kno most ppl would be like what a biyach but quite frankly i realli dont care. Me and her are on a good relationship as in friends and stuff, but it keeps bugging me and i eventually ask her what basically turned her off.

but when i ask her this, it looks like she gives me her pity, like she think i hate her or something, but i REALLI DONT. Some say im an idiot for not hating her, which i probably am, but i just wanted to kno so i dunt do the same thing twice, but all she does is get all pitiful and stuff. Any ideas because it realli just bugs me and i want to kno wat turned her completely off?

 

[ChasinReveries]

she's probably just a flirt, or she just enjoys the chase, the second u gave in and made it "easy" for her, she was turned off....

I don't know very much about the situation other than the trivial details which u've enlightened us to...perhaps u could expand on what u've said...

What did she do to make u think she liked you?

How did u proceed after u find out that she liked you?

What is her reputation, is she a relationship type girl, or more of a flirt..etc...

either way, she IS a *****, and u shouldn't dwell over it...remember SHE is the one that is missing out on what YOU have to offer...there are plenty of fish in the sea, this one isn't worth a ****in second of ur time...so bottom line, don't worry bout it man...

cheers, and g'luck

 

[LikRetsam]

Some famous guy once said, and I don't know who =/ ,
Nature never deceives us, it is us that deceive ourselves.

As a DJ, You assume that everyone is after you. You are the great catch remember? Now, you don't want to go after her and asking her why not. She likes a challenge. She's a flirt and eliminating the little boys from the men. You need to stay on top of the game and act indifferent. This makes you more desirable because she wants what she can't have.

 

[rich_uk]

what exactly do you say when you ask her about it? i mean it must be something pretty full on to make her PITY you, if i were you i would back off. shes had a chance and she blew it, if you want to stay friends then fine do so, but dont keep asking her about things that should stay in the past.

oh yea, its spelt REALLY not reallI... geez