A professional female player

[Jack Lance]

I recently broke up from my girlfriend who i found had been cheating on me and from talking to her close friends afterwards, looks like she had been cheating on me for over 4 months in our 1 year relationship.

Since she started 'cheating' I always felt something was wrong with her but I trusted her too much and did not listen to my gut instincts. I did try to talk to her about my suspicions, but she just got angry and told me I "thought too much" and "didn't trust her enough"

I think I should give you a general background of this girl:

- Tall, slim, hot (probably 8 or 9)
- From a wealthy business family
- Big spender (buys only brand name designer fashion)

She even took me to meet her parents and talked about marriage, moving in and having children. She used me to help her with her business and tried to get me to spend lots of money on her. Luckily, I only lost a few thousand dollars.

The irony is, I started off playing her but "fell in love" and she ended up playing me.

Well, after breaking up, I investigated this further and found that she's done this before with other men.

Looking back, I think I met a professional player. Didn't think this would happen to me. The experience hurts like hell but it's been a terrific learning lesson.

Learning to trust your gut instincts is important.

Anyone else have similar experiences?

 

[( . )( . )]

Not so much a "female player" to me, just an average chick who capitalised on your mistakes.

No such thing as a female player, all chicks have fairly sound knowledge on how to exploit guys, whether they do or not is the only question and in your case this one did because you gave her an opening.

 

[GuitarOnFire]

I got played as well. What a *****. She told me that she was seeing someone, but never said that he was a boyfriend.

So I didn't just look like a total dumbass, I stayed calm and said that when she's single again, she could contact me at the number I wrote down.

I probably will reject her when/if that happens.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Female Player? Uhhh...more like she was just being the typical ho and she found a good chump to waste time on.

 

[JaguarMike]

agreed.


This is nothing new, I am still working on not being the chump when it comes to these types. Even being alpha with these girls is not enough. Dig deeper into her psych and you might find out what she really wants...

 

[SamePendo]

Titman... I just want you to know... whenever your name pops up, I'm all eyes.

Agreed.

 

[flexion_]

Yep AW or borderline chick.

 

[FRëSHURE]

Originally posted by SamePendo
Titman... I just want you to know... whenever your name pops up, I'm all eyes.

Agreed.

LOL.

SamePendo, when I first read your post, I completely agreed. "Titman constantly gives advice that I agree with."

THEN it hit.

"whenever your name pops up, I'm all eyes." - does that mean he's staring at Titmans breasts? or enjoying his advice. Possibly both.

But it got a giggle out of me, whether you ment to or not i'll never know.

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

I only lost a few thousand dollars

HOLY CRAP!

ONLY?!

Thats a lot of money. I don't think I'd spend that much in 5 years.

 

[NewMan]

Titman... I just want you to know... whenever your name pops up, I'm all eyes.

better than the a## man

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Does the thought of a female Dj exist?

Can women manipulate instead of exist?

When did the idea of evolution come into play?

Hmm? This girl must be some AW/PUA to stump Dj after DJ!

 

[bossdog]

u got played son. dont ever mention it again

 

[Zairi]

lol @ this guy spending few thousand dollars on a girl who probably wasn't even that hot.

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
No such thing as a female player, all chicks have fairly sound knowledge on how to exploit guys,

This dates back to the age when men ware providers, and the womand had to do what ever it takes to feed her self....

it's funny, as much as we like to think we are advanced, civilized....we still run on primal instincts....

 

[BobFuest]

hahaha yea i got chumped into an AFC by my last player girl. I have learned and am better for it so take it in stride. As far as player girls, i love girls who have a little game because i like turning it back on them. Plus they are on your level and know when a real alpha comes by and not just a chump. Gotta be careful of girls like the one you had tho, because she is not as much a player as a gold digger.. and it looks like she wasnt messin with no broke n1gga.. (its a song)

 

[sapphire]

I think most of us have been taken for a chump at one point or another.

Take it as a learning process. The more you date, the more savy you will become in weeding out bad women.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

I spent money on her and its an issue....

that's AFC talk right there I tells ya!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Flexion is right on. She's not a player she's a mental nut-case. Girls like this seem like players because they say and do all the right things, which gives the guy the impression that she's "in love" with him. The constant "I love you's" the incredible sex and the gifts they buy to entrap their victim. All the while she's parading around town like she's single and when she meets someone else she's attracted to she IS single. These girls usually come from broken homes or childhoods lacking solid parenting. In many cases the father was completely absent or always away from the house. Therefore the girl always seeks approval from males in her life. Her self-esteem is complied by the amount of guys that want her. She's incapable of loving someone because she doesn't even know herself!! These women will sux you dry and spin your world upside down.

I'm sure there were plenty of red flags flying all over the place with this girl but you just chose to ignore your gut feeling because she was "so hot" and you were getting sex. Its a sad, fuvked up world that breeds women and men to grow up so fuvked in the head like this.



PIMP