No Longer a Loser
Don Juan
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I had noticed a pretty girl in class for several weeks, but I was avoiding going up to her to say "hi". I was waiting for the 'right time'.. past experience should tell me that this concept of a 'right time' would never come. My friends had already met her and swarm around her in class.
One week ago, realising that this 'right time' would never come. I went up to her in class and said "hi, what's your name". She tells me, and that's that. Geez, was I all that worried about just to find out her name? I have insecurity issues
The point is, once I met her, it turns out that she's very nice. Just because she was a hottie doesn't mean she was out of my league. What I'm thinking is why didn't I approach her sooner? And in my case, it was just to say hello. Ignoring the three second rule is very stupid on anyone's part.
3 second rule - where upon seeing a hottie, you wait no longer than 3 seconds before approaching to say hello. Almost infallible in getting you off your arse if you follow it. Don't make excuses. See hottie, 1, 2, 3 seconds, walk up - "hello".
Realise this, the things you regret most are the things you don't do.
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Please make some comments on my first tip. I would prefer comments on your own experiences of similar situations. What did you say, do. Did you hesitate and end up regretting it, or did you follow the 3 second rule?
[This message has been edited by No Longer a Loser (edited 09-11-2002).]
One week ago, realising that this 'right time' would never come. I went up to her in class and said "hi, what's your name". She tells me, and that's that. Geez, was I all that worried about just to find out her name? I have insecurity issues
The point is, once I met her, it turns out that she's very nice. Just because she was a hottie doesn't mean she was out of my league. What I'm thinking is why didn't I approach her sooner? And in my case, it was just to say hello. Ignoring the three second rule is very stupid on anyone's part.
3 second rule - where upon seeing a hottie, you wait no longer than 3 seconds before approaching to say hello. Almost infallible in getting you off your arse if you follow it. Don't make excuses. See hottie, 1, 2, 3 seconds, walk up - "hello".
Realise this, the things you regret most are the things you don't do.
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Please make some comments on my first tip. I would prefer comments on your own experiences of similar situations. What did you say, do. Did you hesitate and end up regretting it, or did you follow the 3 second rule?
[This message has been edited by No Longer a Loser (edited 09-11-2002).]