“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A post about chimpanzees, feminism, masterbation and porn

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I know you are thinking WTF man, but i assure you I am going somewhere with tihs. At least I think I am lol. I must first lay some back drop to how I came up with this.

As some of you know, I am a documentary fantastic. I usually like historical documentary but in it's place animal documentary will more than do, in particular if they are about snakes, I have a thing for snakes.

Anyway, after I finally got done dealing with this wife client from hell last night, I was not really sleepy and I have a list of documentaries that I keep on my pc that i watch in my spare time and I pulled up one called the last great ape, it's on youtube., This is a very fanciaitng documentary in the sense that I actually learned something I did not know.

everyone knows about our famous relatives the chimpanzees. But not very many people know about their unfamous cousins, the bonobo monkeys which from what I understand are actually are closest living relative, even more so than chimps. bonobo monkeys exhibit behavior that we do, that chips don't.

Anyway, the reason most people have not heard about them is beucase they aren't anywhere near as many. There may be about 30-40k left in the entire world and are only found in very remote places in central African rainforests around the congo whereas chimps are all over Africa.

anyway, let me try to get to my point. Physically, you would be very hard to tell them apart. They look identical just about. But emotionally and socially they could not be any different. there are 2 very key differences between the 2. One being that they aren't aggressive at all whereas chimps are extremely aggressive. **** just the other day a chimp mauled a baby chimp in the zoo. But that is not even the biggest difference. The biggest difference between the 2?

sex.

The bonobo monkeys, basically.. well they fvck like rabbits to put it bluntly. they fvck to say hello, they fvck to resolve disputes, they fvck to have kids, they fvck wehn they are mad, they fvck when they are happy, they fvck opposite sex, they fvck same sex lol it doesn't matter they just fvck. whereas chimps only use sex for procreation. pretty much every bonobo male has fvcked every bonobo female in the clan that's just how they roll.

Even more interesting, or at least just as, is that the chimps are a paternalistic social structure where the males rule. If you do not do what i tell you, i am going to bust your head. bonobo's on the there hand, the women run the show. the women decide who eats and who doesn't, decides where to nest, whatever it is that monkey's have to decide on a daily basis the females run the show no questions asked.

and that right there, is how i get to masturbation and feminism. I no longer beleive that feminisim is a moden soceit8ial issue, I now believe that anytime that a woman is allowed to use her sex as a currency, as a whole a woman's power will increase moreso than the males. The more importance you put on sex, the more power you give a woman. we know that, but not on this scale.

See, these bonobo female monkey's are smart. they fvck the males and keep fvcking them to keep them in line. the males are addicted to the sex and will fall in line to keep it that way.

this is how i come to the masturbation part of the p,st and while I don't particularly masturbate anymore, i don';t have to, I am just now realizing just how big of a factor it is, and how as a society you have to take yourself away from porn and from masturbation. This is what is giving the women around you all this fvcking power. you are addicting yourself to ssex just like these male monkeys who can't get anything done and can't put their foot down beucase they want to get laid.

the chimps spend their time doing alpha male ****. they go and fight other chips, they fight each other, they go exploring and expanding hence why you can find them all over africa. the bonobo sits around and fvcks all day and and never wants to step out of line beucase if he does there is no sex.


that's not really all that different from us today.
 

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The bonobos are sex positive feminists' favourite primates to prove how such an egalitarian everyone-fvcks-each-other society is a paradise.

However, I'm pretty sure I've read a report that contradicts most of such "conventional" knowledge on bonobos. They apparently are not as peaceful and passive as thought, and the original report and documentary were heavily doctored by feminists for their propaganda use.

Can't be arsed digging the report up atm but you should be able to find it via Google. It was linked to on some manosphere site.
 

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From the footage I've seen of bonobos, I coudn't see how penetration could be achieved in just those few seconds of "apparent lovemaking".

If a male chimp can get hard, insert and cvm in five to 10 seconds, that's amazing.
But after watching the footage, I was convinced it was just simulated sex to strengthen bonds between individuals, not actually penetrative sex.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
From the footage I've seen of bonobos, I coudn't see how penetration could be achieved in just those few seconds of "apparent lovemaking".

If a male chimp can get hard, insert and cvm in five to 10 seconds, that's amazing.
But after watching the footage, I was convinced it was just simulated sex to strengthen bonds between individuals, not actually penetrative sex.
if i hadn't had a nut in about a year i'm quite sure i could break the 10 second mark

i really don't give a **** if they went around mass murdering each other honestly that was not the purpose of my post. i think it proves the link between a sex driven society and feminism. they coincide. i'm not sayign you should not fvck. fvcking is fvcking great lol. but anytime you allowed yourself to be ruled by fvcking, being driven and controlled by your need for sex, you are going to be under a woman's thumb. rather it be a bonobo monkey or a HB 7 you have dated for a few months

and you know another thing that got me thinking about.. how alpha really isn't alpha at all. when has having a **** load of sex been considered alpha? the ability to have sex with whoever you want is alphya, not the ability to have a lot of sex. that is not one in the same. a person who spends his life having sex is nothing that comes close to an alpha in fact that is quite beta.

think about the histories greatest men. Fvck Alexander was so pvssy deprived he fvcked dudes. Jesus was (i assume) a virgin upon his death. Ceasar was (most likely) bi sexual though he did have some of the greatest ass in the hisotry of time, he didn't spend his entire life fvcking.

I think that's kinda the chimps mindset. we ared going to go do our thing, and when i get back im' going to fvck the best broad here and get off and then im' going to go do my thing again. it's a part of life but it's not life. and when i do it i do it right. but just going arond and fvcking everything in sight, there is nothing alpha about that. That's a bonobo beta monkey.
 

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I think I have to agree with the main point. The media, our society, shoot even this forum emphasizes the glories of sex more than ever - puts it on a pedestal. Is it a coincidence that feminine power is at its peak at the exact same time?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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backbreaker said:
think about the histories greatest men. Fvck Alexander was so pvssy deprived he fvcked dudes. Jesus was (i assume) a virgin upon his death. Ceasar was (most likely) bi sexual though he did have some of the greatest ass in the hisotry of time, he didn't spend his entire life fvcking.
In Alexander the Great's time, many Hellenic men considered women so inferior they wouldn't fvck them. Sure, they procreated with them but when it came to having fun, partying, getting drunk and getting laid, they preferred to do it with their `equals' - men! Alexander would've had access to so much exotic, enslaved pvssy but to noblemen of his time, fvcking a woman for pleasure would almost have been as bad as fvcking a goat.
Caesar? Well he just fvcked everybody. Lol

But you're right, getting laid should be a byproduct of alpha-ness achieved through general life improvement and an iron conviction derived from the bitter, hurtful boxing ring of life experience.
 

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zekko said:
I think I have to agree with the main point. The media, our society, shoot even this forum emphasizes the glories of sex more than ever - puts it on a pedestal. Is it a coincidence that feminine power is at its peak at the exact same time?
we don't agree on everything but this is one thing you and I see eye to eye on without question.

It reminds me of my dad. I talk about him enough here but my dad epitomizes this mindset. My father, is an above avg looking man even at what, this is 2012..51. he's avery handsome man. I mean, but beisdes being handsome and having the gift of the gab.. he's 'not a guy that is going to walk in the room and just get the baddest girl in the room with a room full of successful people.

see i have him pegged to the T. he knows this. so he, like many, take the quality over quality route. My dad takes solace in fvcking 10 6's instead of 1-2 8.5's or 9's. I'm not saying every woman my dad gets is a 6.. my (apparently now ex lol) step mom is BAD. Fvck she's not that much older than my wife. she's 37 my wife is 34.

and see this is what i mean, like my dad was always the "don't rock the boat of life" type. get you a stable job, don't try too hard, pay your bills on time, maybe get some money on the side doing something but see and i learned this from my dad and I suppose this is why I am so adimiant about it.. that self esteem is like steam coming out of a boiling pot it's going to come out somewhere. in my dad's case and in a lot of cases here, they are serial cheaters. and if that's your thing that's your thing I'm not going to knock your hustle i don't knock my dad's hustle, but at the same time I understand why my dad knocked my huscle, it wasn't because he didn't think i was smart or hard working in fact it was very much the opposite; my dad despises what i have become, because even though i visually look like my mom mentally i am a spitting image of my dad and it kills him to look at me with a wife that's badder than anything he has ever gotten into, in a house nicer than anything he's ever lived in, all because i tried.

see, and i evern get it here from time to time, my libdo.. it's just not that high. I am not saying we dont' have sex, on avg 2-3 times a week and that's more than enough for me and i don't have to really ask for it. and i've gone weeks without sex and it doesn't phase me in the slightest could really care less, and then you get guys who beat their chest about how they HAVE to have sex, you know what that tells me, that tells me you are my dad and my dad hates himself. he pacifies himself with new (very avg) ***** and alcohol.

But the more he has sex, the more women he has, it's lke the worst off he is. I used to look up to my dad in my early teens. I mean he had his issues but I mean, at that time he still had some fight. he was investing in real estate, he was starting a new business, he was trying. not even just abou the the woman, but wehn all that stopped he amped it up again and now the last 10 years, he's a fvcking disgrace to my last name.

ps- I just realized something and I need to clarify before it gets taken out of context. In no way am I suggesting that you shoudl not spin plates you should spin them plates until they break dammit. I slept with women while sleeping with other women but i never wsa a player player implies leading on and that i never did. and when i settle down i am settled i'm out. nor am i saying that you shoudl just worship one girl. Im' simply saying that.. there is more to live than *****. guys ask all the time man how can a dude have millions of dolars or be so successful and not bang 100's of 9's.. beucase it's not that fvcking serious lol that's why. lol that' shwy he's successful and you aren't.
 

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Exactly because being able to wake up on a Monday call your mates get everyone to take the week off jump into the truck and go on a fishing/hunting trip is what being a man is all about. Being able to focus on a single dream that you have had since you were a child and pushing yourself to achieve that dream is what being a man is all about. Being able to do whatever you choose to do and not letting anyone or anything stop you from doing that thing is what being a man is about.

Once guys start to do the above everything else becomes "meh boring" and everything else in your life just falls into place, you start to give off an aura of superiority and success and guess what everyone including women are attracted to that aura and things just start to fall into your lap.

Well its not that easy but once it starts to happen to you, you know its happening and you can't deny it.

In short basically sort yourself out and everything else should become much easier.
 

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backbreaker said:
we ared going to go do our thing, and when i get back im' going to fvck the best broad here and get off and then im' going to go do my thing again.
Golden. This has been my mentality naturally from day one. I've probably not banged as many as some on here but if you saw them all one after the other they are all bangers. Head-turners anywhere we went. I remember my brother and I talking about this long before I discovered Game and agreed that the pu$$y either needs to be quality or why bother.

Plus I think in the long-term having that standard effects your sub-conscious estimate of yourself and your capabilities. When you see the hottest thing there after strolling into the party, you don't get intimidated and think "sh!t, the last 5 girls I banged were way below that standard", you think "yeah I've banged hotter girls than you, so whatever". I don't think I need to clarify which mentality is superior to achieve results...
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Incredibly good post. I've noticed myself that there's that "enlightenment" plateau when you stop looking at porn/fapping for at least 3 weeks where you become less of a slave to the sexual impulse and less frustrated. We are a hyper sexualized society. Even if you dont look at porn there are half-naked women everywhere.

Its rough getting there though lol. Especially in the summer where you have hot women everywhere, even the 5's look good in the summer.

Contrary to the movie Alexander, Alexander the great viewed the sex drive as a weakness and did NOT glorify it, I view it the same way, a remnant of animal instinct. It is very powerful though, not something to be suppressed.
i did not know that about Alexander. interesting.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Incredibly good post. I've noticed myself that there's that "enlightenment" plateau when you stop looking at porn/fapping for at least 3 weeks where you become less of a slave to the sexual impulse and less frustrated. We are a hyper sexualized society. Even if you dont look at porn there are half-naked women everywhere.

Its rough getting there though lol. Especially in the summer where you have hot women everywhere, even the 5's look good in the summer.

Contrary to the movie Alexander, Alexander the great viewed the sex drive as a weakness and did NOT glorify it, I view it the same way, a remnant of animal instinct. It is very powerful though, not something to be suppressed.
Also yours is a good one, shame cannot rep you again.

I found the same, after 2-3 weeks of completely cutting porno all those forced which enslave you get weaker and weaker day after day.

No longer you seek eye contact from women on the streets as a self-validating way nor you feel the need to put an effort on women which you gut tells you to ignore.

No surprise Alexander had the ambition and the nerve to accomplish all that, I wonder if the temptations and vices modern men face are a major reason for their mediocrity.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Also yours is a good one, shame cannot rep you again.

I found the same, after 2-3 weeks of completely cutting porno all those forced which enslave you get weaker and weaker day after day.

No longer you seek eye contact from women on the streets as a self-validating way nor you feel the need to put an effort on women which you gut tells you to ignore.

No surprise Alexander had the ambition and the nerve to accomplish all that, I wonder if the temptations and vices modern men face are a major reason for their mediocrity.
I would say that is the reason why most men are mediocre, they just don't have the resolve to step into "game mode" and get things done which need to be done. That's why majority of late 20's early 30's men are so out of shape working in a sh!t job married to or dating a sh!tty gf etc etc. They don't have the balls to step up and change their situation.
 

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I would say that is the reason why most men are mediocre, they just don't have the resolve to step into "game mode" and get things done which need to be done. That's why majority of late 20's early 30's men are so out of shape working in a sh!t job married to or dating a sh!tty gf etc etc. They don't have the balls to step up and change their situation.

David Deida writes about why men are mediocre. It's about not holding back semen. When a man holds back his semen everything will be better he claims.

I know there is someting about this and have read the book "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow" by Marnia Robinson. It describes in a neuro-science way what happens after orgasm.

I have tried to hold back orgasm several days, but it's very hard when I'm having a woman who love to suck my d*ck every day and we also have s_ex almost every day :crazy:

But I'm on my way to illumination :D
 

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there was a lot of talk about bonobo lately , and it is very clear why , it is the first time feminist find a biological evident of matriarchy . because all biological evedents refer to human as patriarchy .
they are trying to make a human closer to bonobo than Common_chimpanzee http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common_chimpanzee
and that is not true , all sceientists know human branched from Common_chimpanzee and not from bonobo
 

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Pvssy is perhaps the most overrated commodity in the known universe.

Guys spend all day dreaming about it. Guys will give up everything for it. The desire for it messes with guys' minds, leading them to do stupid things like marrying unstable, damaged women or rearranging their lives around a girl.
 

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evan12 said:
there was a lot of talk about bonobo lately , and it is very clear why , it is the first time feminist find a biological evident of matriarchy . because all biological evedents refer to human as patriarchy .
they are trying to make a human closer to bonobo than Common_chimpanzee http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common_chimpanzee
and that is not true , all sceientists know human branched from Common_chimpanzee and not from bonobo
actually from what i understand it, we and shared a common ansestor about 5 million dollars ago and we branched into 2 different species about that time, both being great apes but being 2 distinct set of species. bonobos branched from chimps about 1-2 million years ago. we are about genetically equal. but the bonobo does have traints/DNA strains that we have that chimps do not have that is a fact.

even better though is that, yeah women will find this and point it out but it's really detrimental if you think abou tit. lol i mean **** they are fvcking on the endangered species list. chimps are as well but there are about 30k bonobos versus about 300k chimps in the wild. you can find chimps all over central africa you can find bonobos in about 2-3 very remote places.

If anything it proves that a hierarchical society is better for evolution and mankind in general.
 

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BB that reminds me of one of my favorite authors who said the problem with the human race is our two best assets might be our undoing. The older asset is having successful but deeply flawed hierarchical societies, the newer being intelligence. So far intelligence has been serving the hierarchy, and in the future the hierarchy needs to serve intelligence.
 
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