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A "planned" day to have sex?

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So im talking to this girl, and we get hot and heavy. she comes to me afterwork and we always end up in the back of her car in the park. we make out, and i go for the neck, and she tells me to stop because " it's her weakness" obviously im not going to stop. she resists like crazy, but doesnt tell me "no" and just keeps kissing me and kissing my neck. that was maybe 4 Days ago.

fast forward to today, and we've had a repeat of this everyday. i guess i've gotten a little predictable, because we end up at relatively the same dark area, alone, and we make out, i go for the neck and she somewhat resist, although it does get less and less as the days go on. today she stopped resisting, although after a few minutes she told me to "stop because she can't control herself".

I tease her and we talk and continue. its way past her cerfew to go home, so we say goodbye. Although i cannot remember her exact words, i'll sum up what she told me before she dropped me off. "tomorrow i don't work, we'll fvck then".

Now i think its a little weird that she plans it. i don't want her to have the control, and i know she wants me. But I want to really work her for it, i want to tease the crap outta her just like shes been doing for the past 4 nights to me.

Im asking for some creative brainstorming to what i should do, to drive her nuts tomorrow. I do plan to mess around with her, but I want her to be very turned on by the time i decide its go time.
 

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That pvssy has been dripping for a while now. When you get to where you're going to screw her, kiss her passionately, stick your hand down her pants and insert a finger or two to find out. Tease her? Are you serious? Just do it. Then do it again. And again. Better to screw two, three or four times than try to drag out the first one only to get interrupted by unforeseen circumstances.
 

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That pvssy has been dripping for a while now. When you get to where you're going to screw her, kiss her passionately, stick your hand down her pants and insert a finger or two to find out. Tease her? Are you serious? Just do it. Then do it again. And again. Better to screw two, three or four times than try to drag out the first one only to get interrupted by unforeseen circumstances.
I wouldn't "insert a finger or two to find out." Most girls don't want you inserting fingers at first, even after you get to know them. I recommend simply rubbing the pvss from the outer panties. She'll probably be wet in no time and you'll feel it. Tell her, "Wow, you're wet quick" and she'll acknowledge it, and you progress from the kissing and rubbing to sucking her t!ts and removing her clothes. Don't spend much time sucking/licking her t!ts. Many girls don't like a whole lot of attention there at first. Just briefly flutter with them. Remove those god damned clothes and begin licking/kissing her thighs, moving to sucking her cl!t. Spend ample time under the hood. You win!
 

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BongDuy said:
I tease her and we talk and continue. its way past her cerfew to go home, so we say goodbye. Although i cannot remember her exact words, i'll sum up what she told me before she dropped me off. "tomorrow i don't work, we'll fvck then".

Now i think its a little weird that she plans it. i don't want her to have the control, and i know she wants me.
I don't know about you brother but if a female tells you that tomorrow you'll be f_@#%@# I would forget about trying to have "control" :woo: :D

btw check out your pm's i sent you some tips
 

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I wouldn't "insert a finger or two to find out." Most girls don't want you inserting fingers at first, even after you get to know them. I recommend simply rubbing the pvss from the outer panties. She'll probably be wet in no time and you'll feel it. Tell her, "Wow, you're wet quick" and she'll acknowledge it, and you progress from the kissing and rubbing to sucking her t!ts and removing her clothes. Don't spend much time sucking/licking her t!ts. Many girls don't like a whole lot of attention there at first. Just briefly flutter with them. Remove those god damned clothes and begin licking/kissing her thighs, moving to sucking her cl!t. Spend ample time under the hood. You win!
I know this. I'm hoping he knows this too. He's been here a year and has 500 posts. Hopefully he's comprehended some of the stuff he has read and gained experience. I didn't want to type out 800 characters like you did. Notice I didn't walk him through getting the girl where he wants her either. Or how to practice safe se.x. I mean he's making out with her for the past four days. Can I take liberties with his knowledge and abilities? Not trying to be rude I'm just asking.
 

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I just checked his profile and high school journal(didn't read all of it tho) and maybe I should've worded my post better, poonani maker. How is this? Better now?

Tease her? Are you serious? Just get it done. Then do it again. And again. That doesn't mean you should be balls deep into her within ten seconds of getting her in the door. But, it's better to screw two, three or four times than to try to drag out the first one only to get interrupted by unforeseen circumstances. Get a multi-pack of condoms and use them.

And just so you know, that pvssy has been dripping for a while now. You've been working her up good for four days now. If you don't believe me, just run a finger along those lips when you get her pant.ies off.
 

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haha no man just put "a good ****ing" on your calendar for tomorrow..have fun!
 

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My point is, that once you get to cunniligis, Even if you're not doing it to her liking, or she's "too sensitive" etc. etc., you Only have two directions to go from there, and that's either her returning the favor by sucking your c0ck or her guiding your d!ck insider her warm muff. Kiss her While fvcking her, makes it better. Also, masturbate her cl!t while fvcking her, she'll appreciate it, even though it's more work for you, but I don't consider it work, I love making her squirt.
 

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haha okay okay, i won't try to torture her with teasing because i'll probably end up just torturing myself by not doing it.

yeah i have some experience, but not much when it comes to sex, so to be honest i have no idea what im doing. all i know is im going to do lots of kissing, neck biting, and i can't wait to go down on her. i've never done it before, but i have some confidence that it can't be too difficult. just do a little sucking, and kiss her thighs and all that.

we'll see how thiings go. maybe she can teach me a thing or two. =)
 

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okay heres the update: she ends up coming over and to cut it short, yes we end up ****ing. but, we had a little situation.

I couldn't get hard. I was soo surprised and a little saddened by this. my friends know me as the guy who jerked off 17 times in one day, how the fvck could i not get hard with this naked chick on my bed?! jesus christ.

I ate her out and fingered her, but damn i really wanted to fvck. I guess she felt a little bad for me and she said " it's okay you dont have to come" and after an hour of going at it, we kinda gave up and just cuddled. goddamn im so disappointed in my penis. im going to stop masturbating and porn from now on, for real.
 

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BongDuy said:
how the fvck could i not get hard with this naked chick on my bed?
Performance anxiety.

Go ahead and do some research on it if your not familiar with it.

It plagued me for a long time.
It comes down to being comfortable enough to turn off your brain and just go with it.

Stop watching porn but going cold turkey on masturbation probably wont help.
Let me know if you have any other questions
 

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BongDuy said:
okay heres the update: she ends up coming over and to cut it short, yes we end up ****ing. but, we had a little situation.

I couldn't get hard. I was soo surprised and a little saddened by this. my friends know me as the guy who jerked off 17 times in one day, how the fvck could i not get hard with this naked chick on my bed?! jesus christ.

I ate her out and fingered her, but damn i really wanted to fvck. I guess she felt a little bad for me and she said " it's okay you dont have to come" and after an hour of going at it, we kinda gave up and just cuddled. goddamn im so disappointed in my penis. im going to stop masturbating and porn from now on, for real.
I really can't relate to that problem you are having. The ONLY time I can't get it up for a fine-as5 naked girl on sprawled out on the bed is when I've just came, and need about 30 mins or more to start desiring her again. After I come, all my desire for her perty little ass...gone. In my mind I'm saying, I should be wanting to majorly hit that Even After I"ve hit it, but my d!ck and everything else says, this is just a piece of meat, nothing special, because you've already tapped it.
 
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